Someone I know was recently raped by a group of girls (this was a man btw). I don't know how I could help him.
I'm wondering, how could he prosecute them (if he chooses to)?
What are his options?
Um... wow... if theyre cute then consider it awesome, if not then notify some police
he should file charges against them
>>5 I dont know, I think it depends on how malicious it was. Like if in the end hes okay with it then he should let it go or talk to the girls, but if it was really that horrifying for him, then definitly get the police. I suppose the intent and the outcomes need to be determined before a recommendation can be given.
And something I just thought of: OP, is your friend gay?
I know I shouldn't find this funny, but this is hilarious. How was he raped, strap on? This wont be taken as serious as male on female rape, I feel sorry for your friend.
>>8
Women are generally seen as weak and feminine. Men are traditionally supposed to be stronger than women. In your friends case the roles were reversed.
He should probably see a counselor as rape is often more about taking away the victims power than the sex itself and many psychological issues can come about from a trauma like that. As for pressing charges if he see's it as rape he probably should report it, but that said their may not be enough evidence, and as some of these comments illustrate many attitudes on this issue are less then helpful.
>>9
hay guise, gay people are actually transgender rite??
That's a rough one. If he really feels genuinely raped, I would say to call the cops but, then again you know how insensitive society still is when it's a man raped by women; there are just jackasses out there who aren't going to take it seriously and are only going to joke about it. I recommend legal action even if that becomes humiliating which is probably what the rapists where counting on. They probably figured that the humiliation alone would be enough to make him keep quiet but, keeping quiet raises the risk of them doing it again.
If the police don't or wont help, maybe a spiritual adviser (pastor, priest etc.) will help. If not, he can always turn to vengeance even though it's often a bad move but, he can't just allow himself to be repeatedly victimized like this. One way or another, it HAS to stop!
>OP
How does a man get raped by a gang of women?
err i dont know, possibly if we got nailed in the testicles, we would be in the floor for a good while, though avoid reminding the attacker that if you want to not feel un-neccessary pain...
"Rape is an assault by a person involving sexual intercourse with another person without that person's consent." -- Wikipedia
The stereotype that men must always be thrilled by any form of sexual attention from a woman is ridiculous. I'm a man and I was sexually violated by a chick once. I call it a violation and NOT "getting lucky," because it made me feel greatly uncomfortable and disturbed. I have the right to say that; they are my feelings and I own them, and I don't give a damn if someone tells me I'm "less of a man" for that.
Secondly, it's not impossible for a woman to overpower a man, and a group of women is definitely possible - just very improbable.
Your friend should stand up for his feelings and dignity. He should get a lawyer and take those girls to court for rape, and if anyone ostracizes him for that action, those people are not his friends and he should find new ones.
I just hope there was a witness, because he's going to need all the help we can get.
BUT >>16 DON'T YOU KNOW THAT ALL MEN ARE JUST BRAINLESS HORN-BEASTS WHO LOVE ANY KIND OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY THEY CAN GET FROM ANYONE AND THAT IF THEY CAN'T OVERPOWER A WOMAN THEY AREN'T REAL MEN?
JESUS CHRIST IT'S LIKE YOU'RE NOT A BRAINLESS MORON WHO THINKS LIFE IS A BUNCH OF OUT-DATED AND STUPID STEREOTYPES AND STAND UP COMEDIAN JOKES
Women cannot rape men. If they could, men would welcome it every day. I know I would. I am so unlucky! :(
why is it that everyone assumes men cant get rape? anyone can whether their male or female. If he didnt want it, it was rape.
if he didn't have an erection then its rape