I feel that I'm not controlling myself well enough in my facial expressions, and that when I communicate with others that it becomes odd sometimes with my vocabulary. However in more common conversations I do fine, but the problem more relates to my own inner thoughts and choices.
Plus I feel that my eyes are staring everywhere without me noticing. Here's the usual situation, later or during a hang out or conversation with my friends, they will tell me why I'm staring at them. I've only recently become aware of this factor, and I think that it's happened many times before without me noticing. In general I would just stare everywhere. I've figured it could be just an unconscious action that has been invoked in me. It could also be me being more reliant with eyesight, as I do express myself visually.
My blank expressions don't help me either, it's like people who have their eyelids half way between closed and unclosed, and little to no expression will be shown. So if add in both the way I act with my eyes with the way I communicate, it makes me look like a weird paranoid. Being silent a lot is another problem I have, but the only reason I stay silent a lot is because I get bored insanely easy. People who know me a bit more would say I'm just chill. When I get into arguments an the other person is yelling there lungs off I will still have my cold blank stare. So in the gist of it all, the way I act and react is weird and people are freaked out.
And now the reason I've come to this forum is to ask if there's something wrong. Does it mean I've been cursed(not literally) to be socially inept with out realizing it? Is it wrong for me react in a monotone way? Should I work at making myself more active emotionally? I
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I feel that I'm not controlling myself well enough in my facial expressions, and that when I communicate with others that it becomes odd sometimes with my vocabulary. However in more common conversations I do fine, but the problem more relates to my own inner thoughts and choices. Plus I feel that my eyes are staring everywhere without me noticing. Here's the usual situation, later or during a hang out or conversation with my friends, they will tell me why I'm staring at them. I've only recently become aware of this factor, and I think that it's happened many times before without me noticing. In general I would just stare everywhere. I've figured it could be just an unconscious action that has been invoked in me. It could also be me being more reliant with eyesight, as I do express myself visually. My blank expressions don't help me either, it's like people who have their eyelids half way between closed and unclosed, and little to no expression will be shown. So if add in both the way I act with my eyes with the way I communicate, it makes me look like a weird paranoid. Being silent a lot is another problem I have, but the only reason I stay silent a lot is because I get bored insanely easy. People who know me a bit more would say I'm just chill. When I get into arguments an the other person is yelling there lungs off I will still have my cold blank stare. So in the gist of it all, the way I act and react is weird and people are freaked out. And now the reason I've come to this forum is to ask if there's something wrong. Does it mean I've been cursed(not literally) to be socially inept with out realizing it? Is it wrong for me react in a monotone way? Should I work at making myself more active emotionally? I
everyone has their faults. Just explain it to them that you inadvertently stare and you don't mean any harm by it. The key thing to these things I think is that you don't make a big deal out of it yourself. You do it, but that's just who you are. Of course, I'm not saying you shouldn't try to change yourself, but aren't there bigger things you should try to change than you just staring?
Way to fuck up the formatting something awful.
Thanks number 3. And yeah I sure did mess up the formatting pretty hard.
i lold.. u r cute :3
dun be worried, keep on staring and tell them "i find u beautiful, let me watch you move.. ;)" :P