I thought I would never post because some would take me as a trolling idiot. But please allow me to post just this once.
Japanese have felt sorry for the past and our older generation decided to help other Asian citizens with ODA(monetary aid) and appolosised. Even now japan brings huge money to China..
Appogies and money, what does Chinese goverment want other than that...? About history text books, unlike China, Japan has several kinds of them(exactly it's 8), and what's written inside is very objective, not aggitating...Japan should give up the variety? The more they get, the more demanding China becomes... I can't think up any sollution if they don't want to reach a compromise. What Japan should do to be friends with China again? Thanks for reading. I promiss I'll never post here in this thread.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A61708-2005Apr17.html
China's Selective Memory
After all, Japan is one of the world's largest contributors of foreign aid and most generous backers of the United Nations, a successful democracy for more than a half-century, with a powerhouse economy and a constitution that forbids aggression.