>>12
While I agree with what you say, I'd like to point out I'm not so sure about people in general. I don't have to watch my words around guys. If they don't like it, they'll say, "fuck you too", and that's that. If they really don't like it, we both walk away with bruises, and that's that. The only time it comes back is if you're in a work environment, and they have an agenda.
Most women though... they'll smile, be happy, etc. And then a day, week, or even month later, wham out of the blue... "Hey, do you really think that <insert comment>?" As I said, I've lost count of the number of times that's happened. I can't remember the last time that happened with a guy.
If a girl is overweight, she'll know. She doesn't want you to tell her. And I really do think >>1 should go exercise and cook properly if the girl is important to him. What's the worst that can happen? He won't be a fat fuck either. Makes finding other women easier if he decides to do so.