I saw in an article or tv show once that couples sometimes have relationship problems because of differences in what they expect expressions of affection to be. One might be throwing around amorous phrases while the other is waiting for physical closeness. Me, I'm terrible with words, so I like touch(from making out to holding hands), or doing small things for someone. Gifts, gestures, words, touch, kissing, rough sex, fetish swappping, what makes you feel like you're giving or receiving romantic affection?