I'm on a complicated situation, and looking for some kind of advice. I'm a 24 year old guy, with no interest in most girls. No, I'm not gay, it is just that nothing on them attracts me. I have a bunch of female friends, but just friends.

A few years ago I met a girl (and her whole family) and we quickly became best friends. Not just best friends... her family welcomed me in their home, and once in a while I stay there for a few days.

My friendship with her evolved a lot... in fact, a bit too much. I'm like a big brother to her, a wonderful relationship. Nothing wrong, except that I happened to fell in love with her.

This is my situation. If I ask her and things go well, I have a lot to win; but if I ask her and things go awry, I have a lot to lose. In fact, I would prefer not asking her than risking my relationship with her.

Since she sees me as a brother, I'm afraid that telling her my feelings may scare her, and ruin everything. Complicated, huh?

Any kind of advice, or experience sharing, is welcome.