Who here likes mean women? (23)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-27 04:27 ID:xewKCiSW

I have a problem. I am a RELATIVELY normal person and am capable of sustaining a relationship but I usually end up breaking it off before getting too close or too involved. I am a young person under 30, but I have a problem. I like bitches. I mean REAL BITCHES. Women who have little or no sensitivity and are callous, cruel and mean. Why the hell would I like such a person? Well, I've tried the nice girls, and the girly girls, and even the normal collegey hang out girls. But they don't seem aggressive enough for me. I am no he man, and I am no one special but I like a woman who yells. No nagging, no shrieking, no screaming...YELLING. ORDERING. I don't mean like a dominatrix. I am talking about a mean bitch who doesn't put up with my or anyone elses bullshit. It isn't just being mean either, but tough too. Not body builders, but definitely not someone frail. Someone kind of masculine, but still looks all woman. I guess it is because I am looking for a sense of security. I am not looking for kinky sex(sex isn't that important to me) but I have found that most genuinely mean and tough women are usually possessive and loyal and don't cheat(or at least the ones I've known of). I guess it is because they seem more resilient and independent and loyal. Basically a woman who kind of wears the pants but is still a woman.
I guess I have a lot of issues or something, but that's just how I feel.

NOW DON'T GET ME WRONG: I don't mean TOO MEAN or TOO VICIOUS to the point where they are a TOTAL BITCH. But just bitchy and mean enough. Like they are always mean to everyone else and bitchy to most people and even myself included but will usually show like a little compassion for me and kindness on some occasions. Like they outwardly don't like me, but love me deep down.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-27 04:33 ID:xewKCiSW

For, like, an idea of what I mean some examples:

Anko(from GTO)
Anko (From Naruto)
Kaname from FMP
This one girl who did Kendo in this H-Doujin I read that beat up this boy but let him tie her up and make out with her.
Mandy from Grim and Evil
Vicky from fairly oddparents

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 03:39 ID:t2+TyYPQ

Nobody here likes mean girls?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 05:48 ID:hXpx1Mxi

>>1
I would recommend going for business women and political women, they are strong and independent and don't put up with bullshit. I have a friend who is like that. She is usually nice, but if you piss her off, she makes sure you know about it.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 05:55 ID:3uEs9vZO

>>1
oh fuck no, i cant stand them at all, btw, lots of chinese women are like that, pretty independent, but man, ugh god, mean girls theyre so, evil, theyre the bane of my existance, i call all the mean girls in my school succubi, hahahaha, "OMFG WHY R U SUCH A SUCCUBUS!?" is what i say to them

6 Name: 5 : 2006-02-28 06:07 ID:3uEs9vZO

and yes, there are MANY...........

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 06:12 ID:lYDNflqR

>>5
You don't understand. I guess it is because despite their meanness that deep down they are still feminine and kind.

It's just I don't like TOO much kindness because I don't trust most people but I just like to know that despite all of the horror and bitchiness that it is still there.

I hate drama, but I LOVE horror

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 08:40 ID:O3SZ42Mr

There is nothing deep down, a bitch is a bitch.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 11:22 ID:3uEs9vZO

>>7
you seem like you've watched too many friggin animes and think theres that naru type or kaname type girls actually exist, they dont, this is real life. soon enough, ull find urself getting used by these bitches, just watch, HAVE you found a girl fitting this description before?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 16:50 ID:UTZ4z/5G

>>9

Thank you for your post. No. I watch a lot of sick shit, not just anime. I guess I have a problem or something. I have had not a LOT, but quite a few female relationships that were going great. Hell one girl was even talking about marriage, but in the end I ended up saying "Look, I like you as a friend and a girlfriend but I just can't stay with you". The thing is those were examples since this IS an anime board. I know what real life is and I have been overbitched before it is just I can't help it. I dare say it may be a fetish. I like for a woman to be kind of mean and bitchy and even bossy with me. It makes me feel like I don't have to think. I led a lot of the relationships I was in and hated it. I don't want to think. I like when a woman tells me what to do. Really mean and bitchy but NOT TOO BITCHY. OR TOO CONTROLLING. Like I like it when a woman COULD bitch at me and usually does but has SOME tact and lets SOME stuff slip.

I guess I'm looking for a wicked stepmother that still has a heart somewhere. Plus I don't take kindness well. It makes me think they have something to hide whereas if a woman is mean and bitchy I know the worst of what I am getting up front.

11 Name: the7k : 2006-02-28 17:57 ID:xvY4yNyH

Sorry, but I can't see myself being with a mean girl at all. In real life, these are the type of chicks that suck all the life out of a man just so they can pretty themselves up and have all the nice prizes in life. And don't fool yourself into thinking that mean girls in real life have a warm, fuzzy center to them that you can get to if you put up with enough bitching; You'll be dissappointed at least, and at worst, you'll be turned off of women forever.

Remember this, for the love of god: Women, like men too, show their best on the outside. The deeper you get into someone's persona, the more disgusting they become. If you can't stand a persons outward-attitude, you will loath their inner.

There's a difference between a mean woman and an independent woman. And there is something kinda sexy about a girl that liked to be the 'dom' from time to time. The key there, though, is 'from time to time.' I want to have a girl who views me as an equal, not a door mat.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 20:46 ID:3uEs9vZO

>>11
the terms succubus, =P, i think youve got it down

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-28 20:57 ID:6S22Gukz

Not to insult you, but you would sound like a girl who's into "bad boys" who constantly beat her up but she still stays with their boyfriend because she hopes she can "change him" type, if you were female.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-01 23:08 ID:GJ4MA+oZ

I don't want to change them, 13, I think I have a wicked stepmother complex where I'm looking more for a mother/manager than I am a lover

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-02 04:54 ID:O3SZ42Mr

I think that is very common, especially for men raised by single mothers. My brother is this way, he looks for a mother figure in the women he chooses. I have noticed this in every man raised by only a mother.

As a girl, I cannot say I like mean women because I do not like women at all.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-03 02:33 ID:a7ckIBOk

>>1

Luckily for you, there dosn't seem to be any shortage of such sorts of women.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-03 07:35 ID:SXngiP5L

>>Remember this, for the love of god: Women, like men too, show their best on the outside. The deeper you get into someone's persona, the more disgusting they become. If you can't stand a persons outward-attitude, you will loath their inner.

I'm sorry, but this just doesn't apply to me. granted every officially sanctioned and psychology developed personality test shows i represent something like 0.001% of the population, but it's true.

I'm often rushed, and as a member of the long tail of society i'm often getting the blunt end of one size fits all beurocratic policy in the worst way. As such I often look rushed or even forbidding during the day, but i'm a very warm person who cares a lot, is big on the arts, is a serious audiophile, and will bend over backwards for those whom i know.

All my friends are the same way. They are not what they appear, are modest, and conceal great talent and rich personalities.

Don't judge a guy by his appearances.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-26 22:48 ID:mSP2F/7Y

Hi, my name is Hans Törnsäter and I live in Alvik, Sweden. I am 53 years old and have no experience with women. I would like a mean woman to touch my small dick someday.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-26 23:33 ID:p7oTr0tD

>>18

Hi Hans. Sweden is a socialist hellhole. If you are 53 and have no experience then don't start now. Stick to masturbation.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-27 09:01 ID:ia2oEXVC

>>1

Sounds like most African American girls I have met. Try dating them? :\

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-28 04:15 ID:kVEpq/mw

The female lead from the "My Sassy Girl" movie fits that description pretty well. She beats her boyfriend up, tells him what to eat/drink, etc. but still has a sensitive side. I've found myself wondering what such a thing would be like but I'll probably stick to "nice" girls.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-28 04:50 ID:VWvbV3oa

>>20

I do not like black girls. Nothing racist, I am just not attracted to black skin.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 00:02 ID:twUF4IwK

I love strong willed "mean" girls. They are usually very independent and strong.

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