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Doku Otoko, I think you've finally met that one woman you eventually won't be able to STAND. The one that plans special get togethers with you and stands you up!. I and this type of woman met one time, pressured me into meeting her at a bar one time and TOTALLY stood me up on that night. This woman is
1) unreliable
2) irresponsible
3) and ANNOYS THE HELL OUT OF YOU PLAYING PHONE TAG.
My advice is to drop any hope of a possible relationship with this girl if she's just going to make jokes when you're trying to be serious with her, if she's never serious back, then she's just playing you d00d. To hell with her.

Otherwise there is the possibility that she was just as nervous as you were and totally wussed out by making a lame excuse not to show.

This is going to sound cheesy j-dramaish, but...
What does your heart tell you?, do you really want to pursue and build a relationship with this girl now that's she may have deceived you?.