Actually.....I'm the OP and while I like to be controversial and while what a general bit of what I had said is, in fact, sound.

I would say that the best advice of all would be to be to just do what you deem to be right at the time.

If you feel you have to be an oversensitive nice guy and suck up to a girl, then do it.

If you feel that you should complement a girl on her breast size, then do it.

If if feels good, do it. Just be prepared for the consequences of your actions.

There really is no good advice to getting women, perhaps that IS the best advice I could give. Some women love men out of pity, others out of fear, some out of greed, and a great many out of desperation.

So I would say that what I posted in >>1 can work if it works for you....or something else. It doesn't matter.

Nihilism works for me, and maybe being a door mat works for others. In heavy metal, it isn't whether you win or lose, but who bangs their head harder.