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Not so. I myself was friends with my first girlfriend for 9 years before we dated.
Our relationship was very enjoyable and it hurt me greatly when it ended.
We became friends when we were very young and romance was possibly the last thing on my mind back then.

Despite her leaving, I hold no grudge against her and still retain feelings for her.
I know it will never be again, but I feel it was worth it.

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