Making the first move (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-21 03:22 ID:gsQ/HE88

I have a problem.

There's this woman i'm more or less in love with. We started "hanging out" with in the weeks since the semester started, and i really want to start a relationship with her.

The problem is i cant tell if she's interested in me or not. I can usually tell when a woman is interested in me but she doesnt seem to have any real interest in me other than friendship.

Either i'm reading her wrong and she is interested in a relationship with me, or she just likes me as a person and wants to be my friend.

So here's what i'm asking. Is there a good way to let her know i'm intersted in a relationship with her other than kissing her as deeply as i can out of the blue? I'm not really that forward of a person and i'm a terrible flirt; it was usually the woman who made the first in my past relationships.

Any advice?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-21 03:39 ID:Heaven

Ask her out on a date.

3 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-09-23 19:12 ID:Heaven

Read all my older posts.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-10 21:17 ID:PkgE73Dd

try telling you want to start learning her even more better.

and say all kind of weird love thingies :P

would work...

5 Name: Not A Secret Admirer : 2006-10-10 21:41 ID:Heaven

"she doesnt seem to have any real interest in me other than friendship."
"Is there a good way to let her know i'm intersted in a relationship with her other than kissing her as deeply as i can out of the blue?"

That's a good way to get a slap in the face, maybe.

See the "Best Friend" thread; if you're prepared for the possibility of something like that happening if she doesn't go along with it, and you really want to start a relationship with her, you might as well just ask her, ala what >>2 said... be casual. You know, cup of coffee, light chit-chat, go to a museum or an art show... not really sure what level of "hanging out" you're at right now, but something beyond that, but not crazy. She seems to like you (in whatever way) so far for who you are, so changing that drastically could just scare her away.

Of course, all this assumes there's not someone else she's interested in. If that's the case, all bets are off, as you're probably more like just a good friend, heh.

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