I think you guys have good points. I also am looking for a shy girl. Although a while ago I realized I don't even think I need a lot of conversation in my relation. I understand communication is key but I have always enjoyed the thought of just silently enjoying each other. I usually have trouble holding a conversation with some people (especially girls that I am interested in) so this is sort of like my ideal thing. Do you think it is possible at all? I mean some communication would be used but what about two people who could just appreciate each other even in silence?