Guy who doesn't talk much, I like him (12)

1 Name: melting rose : 2006-11-03 21:05 ID:T2oVigWY

okay, so there's this guy at my school. He doesn't talk much at all to anybody and he mostly hangs out with his twin brother, so I have no one that can give me any good background information on him at all. The thing is, i'd want to get to know him a lot more than i already do, and he talks to me only occassionally. Does anybody know any ways where i can get to know him better even though he's extremely quiet and usually doesn't like to talk to anybody without making him all annoyed and crap?
btw, i already told him that I liiked him a lot and that I would like to get to know him better. The whole time he just kept nodding, then he kinda looked towards the distance somewhere and then i said "okay then i'll talk to you later," because i had to go do something afterschool..so yeah, during the past few days after i told him, i've been trying to get to know him better.. and things seem to be okay, but it'd be nice to make even better progress.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-03 21:25 ID:Heaven

>>btw, i already told him that I liiked him a lot and that I would like to get to know him better. The whole time he just kept nodding, then he kinda looked towards the distance somewhere and then i said "okay then i'll talk to you later,"

Haha. That's kinda funny...

But I dunno what to say. Do you guys hang out together? Does he have any activities that you can take part in with him? Like does he like to play video games or something? Or fishing? I dunno...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-03 22:45 ID:Xta6P2aG

If you already talk to him more than other girls do, I'm sure he feels at least a little bit more comfortable with you. But I agree with >>2, you need to find out more with him either on a one on one basis or just in casual conversation. It's okay to like a guy, but you have to make sure that this is more than just a superficial thing.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-03 22:48 ID:Heaven

I was going to say this guy sounds like me, but...

>i already told him that I liiked him a lot and that I would like to get to know him better. The whole time he just kept nodding, then he kinda looked towards the distance somewhere

That makes him sounds like he has asperger's or something.
Even I would show more of a reaction if someone said something like that to me.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-04 00:22 ID:yk9YOQhJ

He's probably scared. It doesn't seem like he's had a girlfriend before or a girl that has likes him. Maybe you should ask to hang out with him outside of school.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-04 13:46 ID:Heaven

>> btw, i already told him that I liiked him a lot and that I would like to get to know him better. The whole time he just kept nodding, then he kinda looked towards the distance somewhere..

Hahah. I can't decide whether that's cute or insensitive.

7 Name: Melting Rose : 2006-11-04 19:01 ID:177G0Nlb

haha thanks you guys, you all rock. Yeah, he's had one girlfriend.. only thing is, everything that i've heard about her, how she's a typical pretty filipino high maintenance chick.. which sucks caused I wouldn't neccessarily consider myself to be pretty, but .. average.. and I heard from a friend that he got back together with her and i was bummed at first but then I smiled to myself while crying and told myself that it's just a small challege, just because he's with someone doesn't neccessarily mean that i'll just give up on him just like that, right?

8 Name: Melting Rose : 2006-11-04 19:03 ID:177G0Nlb

hnn.. too bad it's a weekend cause like, i know it may sound cheesy and corny but what the hell, haha, it's like, whenever i see him from a distance or up close, it just makes my day and that all of the bad crap that happens to be just seems to dissapear... I bet it happens to a lot of people though so i'm no special case.. hnnn

9 Name: Melting Rose : 2006-11-04 19:04 ID:177G0Nlb

oh and about my ID, my friend was helping me get to this site cause i needed counciling with the guy I like and we were in the computer lab at my school not really doing out work because it was really hard and confusing..

>_< stupid honors chem.. gahhh!!

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-04 21:35 ID:pIKDyMHt

I know how you feel. If he broke up with this girl once, he'll probably not stick with her. Just be the girl to help him out with all his girl problems, and he'll see the better girl right in front of him.

11 Name: TokyoJapan22 : 2006-11-04 21:46 ID:5rF1DACA

>>9
HAHA. Glad to be of some help. So Melting Rose.....I see this guy really means something to you. Samething happens to me whenever I meet "a girl"(but rarely due to the fact we live in different areas). I confessed, only to be rejected but it was okay. Soon afterwards I felt as if a huge rock had been lifted off my shoulders. But......in your situation it's pretty different. If you feel as if it were a challenge, then it is. Just....don't do anything bad. Just try to get really close to him, get to know him better.......don't jepeordize the relationship he already is in. It's truly up to the guy to make the decision but it's up to you on how you want to be looked at.

12 Name: 6 : 2006-11-05 13:54 ID:dSsEbnab

>>7
Okay. Now I think his actions (or lack of) with regard to your confession is bordering on insensitive. Seriously, if someone confesses to you, but you're interested in someone else, wouldn't you be inclined to let them know?

But what I like about you is that you had the guts to tell him you liked him. Most of the girls/guys on this board (myself included) usually need to muster everything we have to do that. If you do choose to continue to pursue him, jsut be careful that you don't end up being the rebound, and realise that you might have to smother your feelings into those of "friendship" for a while (just to protect yourself).

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