Girl, Best Friend (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-07 20:40 ID:QQMBFvoS

Ok, so there's this girl I like (Girl A). BUT, she's really good friends with my best friend (Girl B). I don't know if I should tell her (Girl A) that I like her. If I do, my best friend (Girl B)will freak out about it (she was all jealous and territorial when Girl A started tp go out with this guy a few months ago)

Now, I don't want to lose their friendship, specially Girl B. I don't know what to do.

I don't know if Girl A likes me, I doubt it. I am afraid I will fail.

2 Name: Severin : 2006-11-07 21:35 ID:JUW5hNLL

Oh man, I feel your pain.

There was a point for a while- about the time I was a freshman in college- when I was good friends with a lil' group of girls... let's call them A, B, and C (just as you did). All were good friends, but Girl A was the youngest, so they were very protective of her. B & C had boyfriends and were sexually active. I ended up taking Girl A's virginity and we had a secret little relationship. Well, then, one day, when the subject of sex came up when they were all hanging out, Girl A announced that she had been sleeping with me. Girls B & C were furious, and started accusing me of "seducing" and "taking advantage of the innocence of" Girl A. They also told Girl A she should be ashamed of herself for throwing away her virginity so frivolously. The thing was eventually forgotten after Girls B and C had their little hissy fit and eventually saw that they really had no right to speak, as they too had boyfriends and both had lost their virginities to them. (I eventually ended up sleeping with B and C, buuut, that's another story for another day)

My advice? Tell Girl B "Look babe, you know I love ya and you're my homegirl, but listen, you can't control my love life or girl A's love life. That's our decision and our decision alone- you'll always be my best friend, but let me have some fun, okay? You know I'm not a bad guy and you know she's not a bad gal, so what's the worst that could happen?"

She'll probably get over it soon. Good luck

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-08 00:29 ID:prwBZXnX

I agree with >>2 but word it in a way that doesn't sound like you want to take her virginity (just because it does to me)
Also >>2 will have to tell us that story at some point

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-08 01:05 ID:uMxTULj/

>>2
Thanks! I think I know what I have to do now.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-08 03:27 ID:N6Ir4Ubc

Also, I don't know if I should ask her out. I know she will probably say no and I don't want to lose a friend.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-08 11:05 ID:awhrBkXn

What, maths in a love thread?

7 Name: Severin : 2006-11-08 11:52 ID:JUW5hNLL

>>6
Hahahaha, WIN!

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