what's he thinking? ok I met this guys thru a mutual friend. We were looking for the same thing - companionship, someone to hang out with,nothing serious. he has been married - me too; we both have kids. Fast forward we hooked up a couple of times and it was fantastic! I know what I want so I don't play games; like making him wait for sex etc. But he never calls. I called him a couple of times; he was working once so I left a message and one time I called he was tired. Should I keep calling him? Our mutual friend tells me he really likes me and that he is just under a lot of stress with work and his kids; but iunno - should I keep pestering him? cuz that is what it feels like.
ask him if he got a lot on his hand.
well , thats all my brain can come up with, you seem like a no-nonesense person.
I would call once, leave an open invitation to do something at a future, unspecified time, and then stop. If he's interested he'll call you.. if not, you're not wasting your time or looking needy.
yeah I think you are right. He knows I am interested in him. I will give him a little more time - till the end of this month and then I am moving on. Life is too short to be waiting on a man when there are so many around! haha Thank you for your responses. :)
Im sorry but it sounds like he is just using you for the sex without the marriage bit. Dont have him come to your house nor do you go to his house to have sex and YOUR CHILDREN see that you stay at his place and vice versa. You are already screwing up the thinking of your children in what is right or wrong in how families should be.
Dont chase after a man nor listen to friends. You find out yourself what is going on with him. If he is only calling back when he feels like it then you are not important to him (until he needs sex or companionship) and that is not right. Friends are there for each other. No excuses.
OH~ and you do not owe him sex for anything. Making him wait for sex HAHAHAHAHA PLEASE! What has he done to deserve sex with you? If he has not promised to marry you and take care of your kids and take care of your emotional needs..he does not deserve sex from you at all. Dont give yourself to the random man. You want one tht will take care of you, your children and your needs while you do the same through MARRIAGE for him. Yall wont die without sex. You'll be alright.
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Voted Bush.
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