> >>I guess the most important thing I want from a boy is understanding.
> Speaking from a guy's perspective, that's fine, but if you expand it to the whole "you should know what I want all the time" thing it's really a turn-off at the least. don't expect that.

Understandment is not the same as being a mind-reader. Never is, never has been and they're not even related. Never forget that, and do inform people who act like that about it (though preferably in a pleasant manner, lest you want them to not listen to you "because you're a poopyhead" <-- the kind of expression i'd espect from such people)