Hey people of /love/
I don't know if this problem I have is a strange one but I feel it is.
First off I'm a normal 19 y/o male but.. for some reason I very easily get a hard on, Holding hands even.
I really don't want people freaking out because of this but I have no idea what to do about it.
Anyone have any idea what to do or has had similiar problems and can share some experience?
thx
I am the same way. I get a hard on just hugging a girl. Just wear underwear instead of boxers. You can then have all the hard ons you want and no one will know. If for some reason you think your pants will fall down and people will see your tighty whities (it can happen), just wear your boxers over your underwear.
what's wrong with tighty whities?
It's bad for people to see those but not boxers?
No. I just prefer boxers over underwear. That is all.
This sounds like a hormonal problem. Men with too much Testosterone are randy as hell.
What u should do is counter the overflow of male hormones with female ones. If you came into my clinic I would likely put on a low dose of either oestrogen or progesterone.
An easier way though, would be to simply masturbate, thoroughly releasing all that pent up sexual frustration and clearing the mind of filthy, lascivious, obscene and carnal thoughts. (Just kidding - not about the whacking off though).
They're called reflex erections and are normal for teenagers. Though I'm 19, too, and rarely get them nowadays. If you're anything like me, they should have decreased in occurance drastically by now.
I get random surprise boners even when thinking of nothing sexual. It's not abnormal. I think. I'm 19 too. I only wear boxers. Well, I wear trousers and other clothes over the top.
well dont worry. u wank each time u hug women and they will think u r a "real guy"
dont worry and just explode ur bomb.
I never knew guys experienced this. I will be care in the future when hugging them.
I had the same problem. Then I realized, who the fuck cares if I have a boner? If people want to snigger, let them snigger. But I, for one, am proud of my dick. Now I bear unexpected erections with pride.
Depending on how well the date has gone, I either find boners during the "kiss goodnight" stage to be incredibly cute or a bit creepy.
I mean, they're like puppy dog tails, right?
My boyfriend has the same problem, I find it kinda cute.
20 year old here, I got the same problem when im with my girl. I'm not sure she's noticed it yet since we've been intimate only a few times so far but it is a bit embarrassing when it's already kinda erect after just one touch or something. And I also get quite a bit of precum (after making out for like 4 hours it hurts), I find this more annoying tbh.
Anyway, I just think of it this way: Id rather have it like this then the opposite (not getting it up at all).
>>15
A lot of precum isn't a problem, just make sure to for instance use tighter condoms (as a lot of precum tends to lube up the inside of the condom rather efficiently). My boyfriend has the same, and I just find amusing and cool (and it ensures that extra lube is never needed for things that isn't blowjob/intercourse related x-D).
Same problem, I'm 16, i precummed on the date cozza all the huggy holdy-handy stuff. and yet not when she was sitting on my lap when there were no other seats on the train! i didn't even have a boner! weird!
The penis is a wonderful thing. Its amazing how it seems to react. The penis is simply doing what it feels. People have sensors all over there body, be it from touching hands, being tickled or even smelling something.
I've heard of a female that couldn't be around bacon (while its cooking) because it caused her to have an organism - not sure if its true but oh well.
The thing to keep in mind however, is that a erection is normal and natural, I bet the female you are with also gets erect (in the female sense) it just so happens guys can't hide the problem.
Another thing to keep in mind is that just because you have an erection, leaking a lot of pre-cum doesn't mean you want to have sex, it just means this situation is a sexually turn on for you, either that or your body is too "warm" which creates an erection.
>>17 When I was like 13 I sat in the back of a van with my asian neighbour on our way home from the store. She unzipped my pants, got into my underwear, and started massaging my penis. I was at the age where I could hardly control it if I got an erection, but somehow I managed to keep myself from getting one in that situation (I was pretending to be asleep)!
Thinking back on it, I have no idea why I did that. What an opportunity! But I didn't know how to handle sexual situations back then.
>>11
Girls care. Major turn off if you're not their boyfriend.
I have the same problem too, I'm kinda ragin horny. In my first relationship, I always hid it from her cause she was all christian psycho bitch on me, dumped me like a rock. Then I met my fiance and we're close enough that she probably finds it cute too, and doesn't mind it at all. Not that she's actually reached down for it, we're saving that for marriage.
I dont get what's so great about saving it for marriage though. Sex is sex is sex. Sex before marriage is the same as after getting married.