Guys being good friends with girls and not wanting more out of it (24)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 07:00 ID:EhYwW4Qt

What do you think of this? I've heard a lot of girls say how they hate that guys never want to be friends unless they can get more than that out of it. Do all girls think this?

I'm reluctant become good friends with girls that I am not interested in because I'm afraid it might lead up to them thinking I just want to get in their pants or be their boyfriend.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 07:12 ID:dyv8zDb9

The guys who don't want to be friends with girls unless they can get more out of it, probably didn't want to be friends in the first place. They've probably been watching too much TV/Movies and thinking that all couples start out as friends.

Speaking from personal experience and observing my friends, couples rarely start out as friends. Once you a guy approaches a girl and he comes across as just wanting to be friends, I do believe that she won't consider you a potential boyfriend/partner/whatever.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 07:13 ID:dyv8zDb9

Hm... guess I didn't really answer the question you posed there.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 10:31 ID:Heaven

Ugh. You're asking such a trivial question. Why let a little thought like that get in the way of the possibility of a great friendship?

5 Name: Captain Obvious : 2007-01-15 12:11 ID:Heaven

>>1

>Do all girls think this?

Anyone with half a braincell will realize that the answer to that is no.
Sorry for the harsh tone, but it's true. Why did you ask a question you already knew the answer to?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 13:12 ID:Heaven

And anyone with a full braincell or more will realize that the answer to that is yes.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 14:30 ID:Heaven

>>6
I think they meant no to that all girls think that guys only try to get into their pants when guys say or show that they want to be friends. That's my opinion, at least.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 14:37 ID:Heaven

>>6
Girls only think that when they're in primary/prep school. After that, 90% of the time you'll be thrown into the friendship boat. THAT is what you should be worrying about.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 14:55 ID:Heaven

>>8
That's not odd, though. A person should have plenty of friends of both genders! That means that most of the friends you will have will not be girlfriend material for you, or you not boyfriend material for them with their values. Different people want different things in a partner.

10 Name: fart man : 2007-01-16 15:02 ID:jhDF2ZsL

reality:

PAUL ASKED SALLY TO GO OUT WITH HIM.
paul: hi sally, how r u doin??

 (ur huge tits seem so fine every day)

sally:hi im really good thanks.
paul: u r wearing a beautiful dress today, rnt u?

 (i wanna tear it up and grab ur tits!)

sally:oh thank you. my mother bought it for me.
paul:really, thats good. u have a very nice mother, dont u?

 (who cares?)
by the way, where would u like to go?
(come on! u say u wanna come to my apartment!)

sally:wmmmm...what about going to a movie??
paul:oh, thatll be awesome, lets see a romantic movie!

    (shit! lets see a porno movie then)

AFTER WATCHING A MOVIE.....
sally:it was a really nice movie, wasnt it?
paul:yeah, i really loved it. i especially liked when they

 kissed each other
(it was so fucking boring. why didnt they fuck each other
instead??)
anyway, im so hungry. r u hungry too?
(im very hungry, i wanna eat u)

sally:yes, im hungry too.
paul:well why dont we go to a steak restaurant? i know a good

 one nearby.
(u will be my fuckmeat after dinner)

sally:sure
AFTER EATING
sally:oh, ive got to go, its already 9. my dad will get upset.
paul:really, would u like a lift??

 (fuck, u r a bitch! why didnt tell me u had to go back
this early? i wanna punch him up too!)

sally:u sure? thank u so much.
THE ARRIVED AT HER HOUSE
paul:could i see u sometime again? i..kindda really like u..

(u cant say no. i havent fucked ur ass yet)

sally:well, i dont know..i..ill be so busy studying for tests,

  and u know, we can still be good friends.

paul:yeah, of course, we r friends. i understand that. by the

 way ive got to go now. bye
(what the fuck! i fucking wasted my fucking money and time!
fuck u bitch! hopefully, never seeing u again!)

11 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-16 15:07 ID:Heaven

>>10

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-16 16:04 ID:Heaven

>>7 "they" meant?

Just how many people are typing a single post? >>5 is obviously a girl.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-16 17:33 ID:Heaven

half a braincell

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-16 19:48 ID:Heaven

neuron

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-16 20:51 ID:Heaven

quark

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-17 08:01 ID:Heaven

BLACK HOLE COMES AND SUCKS EVERYTHING ITT.

17 Name: Friendly Fellow : 2007-01-18 01:07 ID:6DaCi6pZ

Normal couples are actually very close friends with each other, it's the odd couples that wished to pursue something more.

As for boys wanting to pursue sexual relationship with girls they find to be attractive.

Well, first of all he need to find her attractive.

It should be noted a boy wouldn't reach a girl out of nowhere unless he has a reason to reach her. However, the reason don't necessary have to be because he think she is attractive.

A boy might have disguised his sexual interest as something else if he is lacking of self confidence.

If he has self confidence and manners, he will just subtly hinted his sexual interest, but never lied about his sexual interest.

As for girls think boys wanting to pursue them for sexual relationship.

Well, that depends on how attractive they think about themself and how much self confidence they got.

A girl who think herself as pretty have a high level of confidence, she will think boys are after her for sexual relationship. If a boy pursue her sexually eventhough he mentioned he didn't want it, she will accept it as natural.

A girl who think herself as not pretty have a low level of confidence, she will think boys don't after her for sexual relationship. If a boy pursue her sexually eventhough he mentioned he didn't want it, she will be very confused.

A girl who have a low level of confidence with a boy who have a low level of confidence, is a combination for trouble. I suggest a third party to be involved here.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-18 01:41 ID:W8qNiGFd

>>17
Confusing. Are you saying that it's not possible to be just friends?

19 Name: fart man : 2007-01-19 01:47 ID:jhDF2ZsL

Case Studies
conversations between two people at a cafe.
Watch how Peters attitude changes, when he talks to a girl, and when he talks to a guy.

sally:hey, look at the girl over there! shes so gorgeous.
peter:yes, she is. but...
sally:but what?
peter:i think u r more beautiful than her.
sally:haha thank you, but shes sexy.
peter:yea, but i think she looks a little bit too flashy, and i

  like intelligent looking girls like u better.

sally:oh, u r so nice

tony:hey look at the chick over there! shes so fuckig good
peter:yeaaaa, i love her fucking huge tits!
tony:yea, i love her sexy legs too, but she looks a bit dumb,

 doesnt she?

peter:who cares?? we can still fuck her. okay, lets rape her!
tony:u r fucking nasty, arent u?lol
peter:yeaaaaa, im an evillol okay, u fuck her pussy, and ill

  ill fuck her ass.

tony:ohhhhhhhh, thats an awesome idealol lets do it!!!!lol

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-19 10:30 ID:Cd2AnRUZ

Yeah, shitheads behave like that :O

Because in that example, the girl is also probably a shithead who'd go "What do you mean, you perv!?" on a guy that answered "She's sexy."

And that's why honesty doesn't work with some people.

That that's why you avoid that kind of people :}

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-19 16:47 ID:Fdv8EWIL

Unfortunately, some women have this distorted notion that men and women can be good friends no matter what, thus the "We can still be friends" break up approach. Its a load of crap. Its a cop out women use to feel better about themselves when they break men's hearts by breaking up. I've been on the recieving end of this reply many times, and although whenever I see my ex I'm friendly and all, I don't actively seek to hang out with her all the time, we're more aquaintances than friends and I prefer it that way, I'm happy where I am now with my fiance.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-20 21:54 ID:Heaven

why would anyone want to be friends with a woman?

23 Name: fart man : 2007-01-23 09:39 ID:jhDF2ZsL

>>22
i dont know. theres no point in talking to girls if we cant have sex with them. so i wish they kindly told us if there was a chance having sex with them beforehand. i guess a lot of guys agree on my opinion.

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-23 21:43 ID:Heaven

>>23 lol, agreed for first time.

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