Another one of those /r/ help threads (11)

1 Name: Brick : 2007-01-28 08:41 ID:rYLsCo2B

Can't believe I'm posting on 4ch. First off, I'm a college student, asian, 6'0", slim, and there's a girl I'm interested in. I first met her a year ago in a physics class, but didn't really get to know her till this year when we shared a math class. During this time, she helped me with this class, usually a night a week, and it was all good. Now we don't have any classes together.

One thing about her is that she's also a pretty big gamer. After said previous math class, we once went to a local arcade and played up Time Crisis 4.

3 weeks ago, I asked her out to a meal somewhere under the pretense of her helping me out with my class, and she for sometime when she didn't have work. She then called me last thursday, and said she forgot about my offer the previous week before, but wanted to have lunch this week. Yesterday, we met up for lunch, played some Bust-a-move (which I let her win, but she knows I did) and she watched while I played a racing game with some of the arcade regulars which I know, I walked her to her car and she left, Total duration 2 hours or so. She planned for lunch b/c she said she was meeting her family to watch a movie.

My problem is that I can't read signs at all, tell when/IF she's flirting, and how to ask her out again, but for a proper dinner or something next time. I'm not sure if she has any sort of feelings for me, or if she just considers me a classmate with similar interests. We both have each other's phone numbers, but not screennames.

I think I could have said something better to her when she was leaving, since I said "We should do this again sometime", in retrospect, I think it sounded like I have no interest.

I'd really appreciate some serious advice, especially from people in college age range, its been 4 years since I had a "date", and even then, I don't consider that high school date to count. I'll be back in a few hours to check this thread, hopefully one of you SA/Anon's post.

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