So last Saturday night, I met a cute 23-year-old girl at a club and we ended up hanging out there for about 3 hours or so. Apparently, she's some sort of nurse, though that seems extremely dubious since I remember her telling me she didn't graduate from high school or get a GED. We also briefly discussed video games and anime at one point (she likes Silent Hill, Castlevania, Chrono Trigger and Zelda, among others).
Later on, she tells me she's a mother of two children (4 and 6 years) and as we say goodbye, she's waiting for her baby daddy to pick her up. She left me her email address, which I later found on MySpace.
A little bit of info on myself: I'm 21, still in college, living with parents, and working a retarded part-time job at my university's technology call center. Never been in a serious, long-term relationship with a girl, and I feel like this is way beyond anything I could ever get into. I guess this is really a dumb question, but is there any reason I should contact her and try to move this forward?
Personally, I don't think it's best to go looking for a relationship with her... Friends is okay, but getting into something deep with someone with two children already is.. ehh. Keep up with your schooling and try looking for other dates.
>she's a mother of two children
run away.
Friends only.
MAYBE with benefits if circumstances are right. Just make sure you're BOTH using protection (NOT the rhythm method) since she's had bad luck getting pregnant in the past. After all, you're 21 with a shit-job and living at home while attending college - you want to give up everything good in life to raise her kids (or your own if you two fuck up)?
Do NOT become emotionally attached. If you feel you might be, take a step back and have a cool-off period of a few feeks.
Definite friends only.
While you could handle a relationship, it doesn't sound like you're in position to handle a relationship with someone with kids, which involves taking care of the kids themselves, and also taking into account uncomfortable situations that may either arise or already be present with the father of the kids...
Indeed, do not let emotional attachment color the facts, that you're not in position to raise children & handle family life at this point...
Tap that ass dude! I was at Chukee Cheese the other day for my bros little nephews b-day, there were so many fine ass milfs there, dude, you will be a god if you tap this bitch.
I had a 30 year-old for a while, and I'm only 20. It was fun for a bit, but we both realized our lives were completely different and decided to let it fade. Oh, but it was soooo hot while it lasted. Allahu Ackbar.
Once more I am disgusted by this board.
go for it dude. she's not old at all. kids don't mean she's warped or anything. maybe just the guy who left her
Don't do it, she is just looking for a man to be a father for her kids. You are pretty young and should not be worried about raising a family. She has two kids the oldest is 6 and she is only 23, plus she does not have a high school degree or GED raising kids without a high school degree on your own is extremely hard. She is probably looking for someone to raise her kids and will do anything to ensure to snare a man that can provide for them. But if you really want to pursue this, take it REALLY REALLY SLOW. And in the early stages don't be afraid to meet other women because this girl can possibly be trouble.
>I guess this is really a dumb question, but is there any reason I should contact her and try to move this forward?
Yes. its a dumb question. In fact, from what you say above, Frigid Onanoko think it immoral question. She has two kids and still in relation with their father. You talking about long term relationships with girls. wanna intrude in this family? break it apart? That's what >>1 sounds like, FO no like this tune.
bye now
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Have some fun with her! But be discreet. Is she cute?
I say friends, maybe, but she might not be looking for friendship (I don't know, I wasn't there) but if she wanted something more, stay away.
And as far as the sex part is concerned. Absolutely not. Label me whatever you want, but I do not believe that sex is something to be given lightly to someone that you do not know that you really love and are ready to care for.
Anyway, on top of the obvious irresponsibility that would be shown by having sex with any girl you met in a club and only talked to for 3 hours, she has children, meaning that whether she knows it or not, it is her job to be a role model for those kids.
Even if she would have had sex with some other guy anyway (which has been proven there P.S. the stork has been out of commision for awhile now) it is best that you not contribute to the already present chaos that probably exists in her life.
...and you are young. Graduate from college, meet a girl there who can make over $8.00 an hour.
>>8
good.
Watch yourself. This may seem extremely rude, but she may just use you and she also has baggage.
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