Why why why? >___< (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-21 04:43 ID:0dz14fRa

I've been fooled and decieved by guys corny lines before, so I really don't know how i should take this one:

"It was only after I first e-mailed you that I noticed you weren't even in the same state as me--lots of cursing ensued. Then it turns out that you have an awesome personality, great sense of humor, and just so happen to be an anime chick! If I had my choice of having any girl as my special other, you'd be number one on my list. Honest to God"

I met this guy online back in december and we've been talking since then. And initially, we started emailing each other as "e-mail" pals. The only reason we decided to keep it platonic is for the fact we live in different states. It seems like we'd be perfect for each other, but distance stands in our way.

So my question is this: Should I read into this as a sign and try to make a move? Or Just leave things as they are and do nothing about it?

I'm in need of major advice asap. I don't want to make the mistake of ruining a friendship, but I also don't want to make the classic mistake of doing nothing and always wondering "what if"

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-21 06:59 ID:qaOAnE84

Maybe you should let things go as they are for a while, keep talking to him but don't make any moves just yet. See how things go in a while, see what other signs may appear. Being too quick to make a move can be worse than doing nothing.

Maybe after a while if he doesn't bring up whatever it is that is bothering you first, then maybe you should so then you won't have to wonder "what if".

It is hard to know if something is genuine if you can't look in their eyes while they say it or get a feel for their words through body language. So, like I said...give it a little time before doing something.

Anyways, good luck.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-21 17:23 ID:SGB+zlM/

I dunno, sounds a little fishy to me...

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-22 05:55 ID:0dz14fRa

But what if I wait too long and he's found someone else?

5 Name: Frigid Onanoko : 2007-03-22 07:00 ID:F+S/XmZW

This guy out of his mind. Letter awfully badly written. "honest to God" oh puh-lease! Lets have him be honest to you first, no? He can judge your humour and like it, also that you like anime, he can know that. But can he know you? your personality? He not even know what shoes you wearing! What does he really know, about you, about love - about what it takes to love? Of course, not whole letter posted here, so FO can't make to much out of him. Still, it sound immature.

That's ok. Nobody's perfect and everybody got to learn, no? If you so important to him, why not let him come over? On his expenditure of course. Have 1 female companion with you at first.

You no want fall in love with guy you not even know if he wash his hair regularly, if he wears perfume (bad), and if he can look you in the eye without problems.

If you want him come over, you can encourage, but not financially. He saying that you are his dreamgirl. Lets see how sincere that really is.

Frigid Onanoko wish you luck! bye

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