Hi, well at the moment i'm not sure what to think and I hope that you guys can come to a conclusion for me as to whether I should forget about this person or not. She's just over a year older than me and I think we both like eachother in "that" way. We can't stop looking at eachother every now and again such as over the dinner table and on trips.
Here comes the problem: she is a VERY distant cousin. distant as in her greatgrandmother (or great grand aunt can't remeber which) was my grandmother's step-mother. Although we have absoloutly no blood relation is it still wrong to have feelings for eachother?Please help...
Yes it's ok.
Great grandmother? That makes you like fourth cousins. I think it's legal in most states to marry your second cousin (the child of your parent's cousin.) Sounds fine to me.
hmm...
reminds me of Arrested Development
It sounds fine and don't think about it too much or you will start to create unnecessary worries.
Dude, that is not only legal, but completely fine. I'd do it
Thanks for your responses! I just thought though it would be awkward with families. I'm not sure what our families would think.
I am surprised that you're in contact with that distant of a cousin though... and you see her regularly at family reunions and such? That's surprising...
Well, when my auntie was younger, they her family cam across from indonesia and stayed with my mother's fmaily in singapore. They didnt have a home in singapore and so they stayed and were very grateful. Thats how we meet really.
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>3 Turns out it's even more distnat than that. I found out today that they are my grandmothers stepmother's cousin's descendants.
Man I can't stop thinking about her. Another problem is that she lives in the US and i'm in the UK. How can our relationship possibly progress through e-mail?? This is the first time i've ever felt properly in LOVE. I don't know what to do. I have a loss in apetite. Can you guys suggest anything which I can do either to keep the relationship flowing or tkae my mind off things for studies?? We have'nt confessed to eachother our love. But I think she likes me back because she geniunly likes to smile and talk to me and began snuggling up to me when watching a movie. How do I subtly tell her that I love her?? HLPE!!
Subtly? Quit being such a wuss about it. You either tell her that you like her or not. YOur a man right? If you really want to be with her that much you will sacrifice a lot to do so. If not, then go home and date some local girl. Their are very few women who wants a wish washy man.
lol, fiar enough. I'm 15 and shes 16. Just did'nt know what to do. I'll tkae your advice into account.
What happens if we get together and then evetually break up. Would'nt that damage the relationship between the families??
Shitty thread title is shitty. Come on, the title is for telling what this thread is about. It's the first 5 seconds of your sales pitch.
It shouldn't, your families are too far apart to really affect it. Hell, your family might even support it, well depends what nationality your are, relationships between cousins is preferred to keep the family line pure.
>Is it morally right??
Rule of thumb on morality: if you have to ask, it's not.
Next!
go and fuck her, and don't tell anybody
if anyone knows and questions your morality just say you have an incest fetish...that person will probably won't bother you from now on
by my morals, it is okay, go for it.
fuck her brains out, kid
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