i just want to know something... so i was just going out with a girl i really liked, was really into and all that, but couple days ago she said it's over (and the day just kept getting better)

anywho, tears were involved afterwards and shitty feelings all around (which i still feel a little)

what im getting to is, we were only going out for like a month... why the hell am i hurting so bad from it?

¯\(°_o)/¯ you said you "really liked" her so I guess that's why.

As >>2 said is because you really like/love her, no doubt.

I'm sorry guy.

i have to agree with the previous people that it would mainly have todo with the attatchment you've made with her. just curious though would this be a real life commentment or an online one.

i hope it would be real life since i tend to believe that online ones arnt worth the amount of emotion your putting into this and i can understand why it would've ended so suddenly.

>>4 Online is even worse, because you put much more feelings and if something bad happens you can't solve it. I know what I'm talking about. :(

Is not online right >>1?

You liked that person , but I wonder if you really knew that person or you made her up, not necessarily all of her, but some of her.

>>3 Yes online can be painful just as much as real life apart from the fact that there were no physical ties.

Personally i believe that you should just move on, its always good to try and find the original reason behind this but i can probably say safely that your not going to get a straight answer, not if you were treated like this from the beginning. Just take this experience and use it towards your next relationship. Its always better to move forward instead of dwelling in the past trying to find out the reason for it ending.

Perhaps the biggest thing you need right now is to understand why, assuming this girl isn't angry or disgusted with you for something... (Not enough info in your post to determine either what kind of relationship you had with her, or what caused the sudden breakup).. At least if you knew why she felt it apparently wasn't working out, you'd have closure, and be able to improve yourself in the future..

op here, sorry i haven't replied earlier but my tubes were clogged

it was IRL, no online relationship here... >>7 and >>8 you both basically said what i did, tried to get closure and move on. i dont plan on fucking up like this again.

p.s. the relationship was physical but there was ... something around us, whenever we were together. i dunno. w/e