I hate my boyfirend's mother (17)

1 Name: Rii : 2007-07-30 03:39 ID:ngirWUfi

I really do hate her. She never goes out of her way to help him. He came on vaction with me this summer and now the devil woman wants him home a week early so he can baby sit his worthless little brother. I duno I wish he would stand up to her and say no but he can't because she's giving him her old crappy car. It just makes me so angry that she'd never do anything for him when he needs it, but if it's for his 6 yr old brother she'll jump through rings of fire.

pls help

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 03:47 ID:tsaRSynn

you just described your bf's 6 year old brother as 'worthless'... I hate you

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 04:16 ID:maXHdCH5

You're priorities are fucked... Kill yourself immediately to fix what ever may be bugging you're mind.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 04:34 ID:UhuUTETD

I agree with

>>3

Your priorities are fucked... Kill yourself immediately.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 04:34 ID:0C0aOTzL

wow, i'm sorry, but i agree with >>2 and >>3 . family must always come first. and OF COARSE HIS LITTLE BROTHER SEEMS WORTHLESS NOW! HE'S 6! just you watch, he'll end up becoming the next MLK jr, or ghandi, or some other great leader of teh sort. i'm sure they all seemed pretty worthless at the age of 6

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 04:38 ID:D0mqXlaA

this girl reminds me of my ex... im guessing you need lots and lots of attention from your bf, probably you need his attention all the time and if you cant get it you would just get angry and get angry at your bf
poor guy, the bf gets my sympathy
and pity for you girl

7 Name: Rii : 2007-07-30 07:54 ID:BuJqZncq

>>5 well it would be diffrent if his little brother could whipe his own ass by now, but he still can't-my bf is forced to do it and his little brother screams if he won't open a door for him. Among many other things that are just plain messed up.

and no I'm not trying to put myself first, his family treats him like a dog. And promices him a ton of things and never gives him a single thing. Any time he gets money him mom makes up a reason to take it from him.

and no I don't need attention all the time. in fact I prefer to be left alone alot of the time. It's my bf who needs attention and gets mad at me when I don't pay attention to him cause I'm talking to my girl friends.

I like how I asked for some help and you all say 'to kill myself' what is this a damn suicied board? Look the main thing is my bf doesn't want to go home because he hates it, yet he doesn't try to say no to him mom. I'm not trying to be this evil and controling anti-family bitch you all seem to think I am. I like both of his granparents alot, they both are very nice and treat him well-if it were to leave early to see them I would not have a problem.

It's just I've been with him for 5 years and his mom has always thought of me as a whore even though we just bearly had sex. She has also said I'm a weirdo and not right in my head just because I didn't want to go to my senior prom.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 22:54 ID:cXWvlKLm

You can't do anything about it. The mother controls him because he lives under her roof. You have to wait until he can move out of his house and get a place with him. It's going to be hard, yes, for now, but as soon as he gets old enough or you do to where you two can move and run away from all this horrible pain, you are going to have to deal with it. We all have hard things we have to deal with and its going to be hard but that's the only advice I can give you. This won't be solved quickly as you hope but you are just going to have to wait it out.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-30 23:41 ID:Heaven

> I don't need attention all the time
> I prefer to be left alone alot of the time
> my bf who needs attention and gets mad at me when **I
> don't** pay attention to him cause I'm talking to my girl friends

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-31 22:19 ID:SQ1Hq90I

i can help.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-01 00:03 ID:60kxkF4S

of course you do anyway, she's your bfs mother. Mothers love their sons, and Fathers love their daughters, looks like your bfs Mother is jealous.

besides that, you are overreacting, even if you don't understand what is going on, accept the facts, i mean, is this even that important ?

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-01 04:31 ID:oqiY700D

WTF, family does not come ahead of poon.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-01 05:35 ID:nbxSW6FF

>>13
4-ch is going soft. Both figuratively and literally.

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16 Name: Rii : 2007-08-02 05:03 ID:y8qlarfo

>>8 thank you for the advice

>>12 it's not super important it's just he came up with me to see my family who I only see for about a month and his mother is cutting it short by a week. Seeing my mother in tears because of her is what pissed me off.

17 Name: 12 : 2007-08-02 11:53 ID:IBsCjwMM

Try to relax, if you show his mother that it is not affecting you, she will stop doing these kids games.

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