I recently met this girl, we got along great. Really well infact, I know its early days - but it seems as if she's if she's more interested in some other guy that's around 6 hours away (and more expensive to see)

With me, usually this is the other way around - in such that I like a girl that lives far-ish away, and then someone local sweeps her away from me because they have more of a means to.

She seemed cool with meeting up again, which is great. I spent the entire day with her and she didnt seem pissed or anything, I mean later on she did get her phone out and probably text the guy, but thats expected.

What I worry is, that he might be competition. Sure I think she's a great friend, but I ALSO like her..but due to the uncertainity of how its working with this guy, I couldnt say how it'd go. He has this 'geeky' appeal that girls tend to go for these days, and such it appears as if he talks to several girls. What i'd hope is that he treats them all equally and they think they're special, but he isnt interested. I mean, being a guy myself..regardless of me liking girls that dont live locally, id almost always prefer to live closer to someone I liked because its more convenient, for both of us. She might be moving soon too, which isn't great for me I guess, but it doesnt help the other guy either as it's still the same distance. Either way, i'd like to see if something could blossom, whilst she was still here.

Any idea of what I could invite her to do? How long should I leave til I ask her to want to do things and such?

Also, any way to make myself look superior to this guy? I mean he's a fucking geek, and with that looks creative. I'm comparitively normal and have healthy interests.