Update:

Seems as if she likes talking to this guy so much she will totally halt conversation with me when he's online, which seems to be all the fucking time.

I will give her a few days without me actually making any effort to talk to her. It makes me feel pathetic to talk to someone who would be essentially brick walling me because some other guy appears more important than he is because he has (ive realised this) the advantage of being far away, I mean. Alot of things look good from far away, maybe THATS the appeal. I know he must've been the first guy she's met from a reasonable distance from where she's lived anyway, and she isn't 100% happy where she is now. So goes without saying, hopeful and full of dreams no doubt.

I guess if a person is happy with their surroundings, and getting involved with someone far away would only complicate things, then someone local WOULD be a better choice. But again, this seems reversed.