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Your problem, no offense, is typical of all women: you think its all right to going back to being "friends", the male psychy (sp?) only goes along with this notion to avoid being lonely. In my opinion, and experience, its certainly all right to be friendly with an old flame, but you're probably not going to actively seek out to hang with that person if he/she broke your heart, like my ex-girlfriend. My father and I agree: it is better to have little to nothing to do with that person, unless you have no choice (thus the reason why relationships at work are a no no). Thats just my opinion, granted, but its what works for me, I'm happy with my fiancee