This is what's wrong with women in this generation, and why so many people cheat. When men and women are friends, it always has the possibility of leading to something, and women are often too naive to see it. They just can't see that sex is what every guy is ultimately after... a lot of guys are really good at hiding it too.

Things were a lot better when people had to be in relationships to fuck. Now, every guy/girl in high school/college has opposite sex friends, and it's only a matter of time before someone cheats. Instead of asking yourself how many people you know that have been cheated on, try asking yourself how many people you know that haven't. And that's only the ones you know about.

I just got out of a relationship with a girl who wanted to be 'friends first'. When I told her I separate all my friendships and relationships, she was shocked... she had absolutely no dividing line in her thinking, and this is the problem. If I could simply use friendship as an entry point into a sexual relationship, what's stopping any other guy? I've gotta keep watching her as a result, because I don't trust her, and I certainly don't trust any of her male friends, because I know that 99% of them are after the same thing I was. She's even admitted to me that they've told her that, but she ignores it! And this girl isn't unique either... I'd wager to think that the majority of girls think the way she does.

It's like the sexual revolution of the 60's, except nobody is doing it because they think it's the right thing. They do it because they just wanna 'get their's'.

Also, posters like >>11 are a perfect example of the hapless female that doesn't realize that men only want sex. She'll learn though, heh.