What should I do? (11)

1 Name: the token shy girl : 2007-09-18 18:10 ID:0ZTN42Tf

Ok, I've had a crush on one of my guy friends for a long time now. About a week ago, our mutual friend pulled me aside when he was out of the room and said that she thinks that he likes me. Of course, being the shy dumbass that I am, my reply was "Oh, he does?" Well, now I kind of want to ask him about it personally, but I have no idea how I should bring it up. ;_; Should I just ask him about it directly?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 19:55 ID:uO1mNn0c

No. Don't do anything. Just do nothing and be tormented by your regret for years to come, everything will work out much better for both of you that way.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 22:24 ID:36MIolSi

well to be honest HE should do soemthing if he really does like you...but it wouldnt hurt to start the initiative, sit closer to him more often perhaps? Just an example but, its the subtle things that send a strong message

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 22:24 ID:36MIolSi

well to be honest HE should do soemthing if he really does like you...but it wouldnt hurt to start the initiative, sit closer to him more often perhaps? Just an example but, its the subtle things that send a strong message

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 22:47 ID:uO1mNn0c

>>3-4
Traditional gender roles are bullshit. Besides, just sitting closer to him probably won't do shit.

Now do our screwed up society a favor and go ask him to a movie.

6 Name: the token shy girl : 2007-09-19 01:14 ID:0ZTN42Tf

Thanks for the reassurance. I've been needing an excuse to be assertive about something. XD I'm gonna ask him to a movie on Friday and see if I can say something about it.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-19 03:02 ID:uO1mNn0c

>>6
No problem. Sometimes all you need is somebody to tell you what you already know. I wish you the best of luck.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-19 04:18 ID:dnoIodde

>>6
DO IT AND YOU WILL BE SO MUCH HAPPIER.

9 Name: person : 2007-09-27 04:17 ID:DS4m2fqR

in the movie, touch his penis. he will love that

10 Name: person : 2007-09-27 04:18 ID:DS4m2fqR

in the movie, touch his penis. he will love that

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-27 05:30 ID:7mBAN6WF

>>8
Amen. When you ask couples how they met they never tell some wussy story about how they got a go between. Basically if they're too cowardly to tell each other directly they don't deserve to be together.

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