Chinese love (14)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-28 17:35 ID:J/y3aKh+

do chinese people usually confess their love? Like for to chinese girls, do you usually say i like you or is it like north american way where you jsut hang out with her a while and you slowly become her "gf" or something? help

2 Name: sage : 2007-10-28 22:58 ID:Heaven

The racism in this forum is amazingly pathetic.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-28 23:59 ID:J/y3aKh+

no i mean for real...because the girl i like is chinese and i dont know how to approach this because the culture is different. please help

4 Name: 43 : 2007-10-29 01:47 ID:aRa6gce+

I've been wondering the same question about Germans for a while now.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 02:49 ID:WAQHryZe

You really are stupid, if you let a little thing like a culture difference affect you going out with somebody, but it's also sad you even think like that.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 02:59 ID:J/y3aKh+

y cant u just help me

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 03:38 ID:WAQHryZe

i help you when you understand what i said >>5

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 03:50 ID:+8+7rzt0

i just want to know because northern americans usually just hangout together they don't really confess while others have different thing

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 04:52 ID:It6keC1r

People are individuals, maybe you might just hangout with a North American girl just as maybe one Chinese man might confess to another. Individual people have different ways of expressing their feelings to each other. So, why not be yourself and not do whatever it is that you THINK Chinese people do.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 04:55 ID:It6keC1r

Also, what is with the title "Chinese Love"? Like Chinese people have a different feeling of love than everyone else. I wonder what Swiss love is then...

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-29 09:59 ID:f81dHHtO

>>10

It involves cuckoo clocks.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-30 00:41 ID:2OH2p07T

>>1

Just spend some time with the girl, and you will understand how SHE works,...

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-30 12:04 ID:bDgoNCrX

>>10
A box of chocolates.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-11-01 14:04 ID:B28Kzr+P

it depends, you can tell whether a chinese girl follows the western way or the traditional way by how she carries herself usually. if their parents are 1st generation fobs then their children will more likely be more reserved and hold more traditional/conservative views about relationships. there is a lot of stuff about confessing, should i shouldnt i, writing notes and all that.

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