I have become very good friends with a girl who is likely a dominant type lesbian. As a submissive male and crossdresser in secret, I am very attracted towards her. Does anyone have any thoughts how I could get intimate with her, ie. pegging etc? I tried to start the topic last night as we were laying on her bed watching TV but I couldn't find the right words.
Ask her if she would date a crossdresser first. Some lesbians wouldn't even think about dating a guy.
rape her then she'll turn out to become a girl
crossdress and use that ego as a person that would be in love with her
In my experience as a lesbian, most gay girls will date a guy, as long as he has the right personality. Seeing as how you're submissive, it may work out. However, it will have to be a very emotional-based relationship. She probably hates penis, and so she's not going to want to be cuddly with you right off the bat. It will take time, so only get into this if you're really serious about a relationship - not just sex.
Why don't you find out, by trying?
Most people don't even know what THEY like, until they try, so it's even more difficult to predict other people,... If she allows you in her bed, you're halfway there, so why not experiment?
Uh, "likely"?
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You're not a lesbian. You don't even know any lesbians, I suspect. "Most gay girls will date a guy?" No, dear, they won't. That is arguably the thing that makes them gay.
Yeah, most lesbians I know are totally laid back and don't even pretend to go crazy over a guy. I don't know where you got that impression.
Once again, to the OP-- I assume you two are good friends and she doesn't know your fetish, so just ask her whether she would date a crossdresser. If she says no, have fun with it. If she says yes, edge your way in. And give us some updates!
I have gone through this experience before.
Treat her well, make her laugh, make her smile.
Hang out with her often, and do your best.
Oh dear. May fortune smile on you; Godspeed man.
I'm a man and I was able to date a lesbian once. She was not a dominant type, but still, it shows that it's entirely possible, so go for it.