lonelyness (17)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-02 16:41 ID:At4EBVZk

Hi love!

everyone feels lonely occasionally.
well, today is my day being lonely. Lately all my friends are busy, I hardly meet my friends.
further more I'm in love with a girl who has a BF and my best friend likes her too.. >_<

what do you do love, when you are lonely and none of your friends have some spare time for you?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-02 17:01 ID:jsB7I0gD

I go to bed and sleep a while. After i wake up i feel a bit better.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-02 17:01 ID:fYqAkSIL

I'm in that situation, too. I have feelings for a boy who already has a girlfriend, all my friends are dating someone else who they'd all rather talk to than me, and lately I've been feeling like I don't belong in our group at all.

As for what to do, I've no idea either. I used to dive head-first into fiction and into music, but those things have lost their charm, unfortunately.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-02 17:17 ID:j6Ql3o8f

Finals are causing me to isolate myself from everyone. I go to a community college where I have no friends, and I just don't have the time to do anything but study anyway.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-02 18:00 ID:PlYtIn3y

>>4

Sounds quite a bit like me, only slightly different circumstances. Senior year college, getting ready for grad school, no friends and happy that way. If I started getting into friendships and such I'd have to cut back on other things in my life, which I'm not inclined to do.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-03 00:48 ID:yKMK8aAW

>>5

Oh, I have plenty of friends. Just not at school, which makes things like studying with people (my old strategy for getting work done while simultaneously fulfilling my need for human contact) a little bit difficult.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-03 12:44 ID:QqprdC9e

Once I was out of highschool. I just didn't mix with people. I don't really understand why. Making friends was so very easy for me when I was a teenager.

Yea, its a lonely morning, My brother left yesterday and wont be back for the week. Its me, and a house for 5 people, all empty with lights off.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-03 16:33 ID:At4EBVZk

OP here again

>>3
I think you should just go for it. I'm not even trying because the possibility of losing a friend. -__- your best friend isn't in love with the same girl I suppose so just GO!.

lol, resolved my problem in the evening ^_^
just watched a funny movie :-)
a hug would've cheered me a bit faster I think xD

9 Name: troll : 2007-12-05 20:21 ID:8Kzosrug

you are all pathetic

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-05 22:09 ID:fpu1L0Mw

>>8
'Same girl'? >>3 is a girl...

>>3
You can be my waifu if you want, I'll take your mind of that guy for sure.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-07 19:06 ID:Y62i1NvA

I've never figured out what's wrong with being lonely. Probably because I view society as a sham, but that's irrelevant.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-13 13:27 ID:4o0KJ0U4

i'm happily attached with the best girl ever but i still can't help feeling lonely at times.

i don't have as many close friends or as much family commitments as her which results in me having loads of free time which she might not be able to spend with me. just gotta deal with it.

sometimes its really a luxury to be able to do whatever the heck you want to whenever you want to or make impulse decisions on the fly cos you're alone with no one to pander to.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-15 13:39 ID:F7DH3/mr

I'm lonely!! I have almost no riends! I have only one family member close by, and I don't get along with her. I have serious problems bonding with other human beings. I don't go out and meet new people. I made a friend in my class at unversity, but she's probably only being my friend because she's a lesbian and she's into me. Shame i only like guys!! What to do? How to be more socialy competent? waaaaaaahhh!!!!

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-15 18:01 ID:O4kXWbsv

>>13

Uh, don't automatically assume that your only friend is going to girl-rape you, and you'll probably be okay.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-17 01:25 ID:Q13Xr37Z

she knows you're a loner and there's no guys in your frame of mind that wants you that is why she's keeping herself available so you can settle with her instead. first off, don't dismiss everything as if no one is really interested in you. just be friendly and approachable so that guys may be able to have a chance to get to know you. waiting without doing anything is like waiting to get old alone.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-17 03:50 ID:w7GsZLEI

>>1

Everyone can get to feeling that way. I wanted to hang out with a good friend today, but he was already at a girl-he-likes house by the time I called him. It sucks too, because I could so tell he was acting differently because he was around her, like he wasn't the guy I know ;_;. I just kinda played along and did stuff solo today.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-19 15:26 ID:Zx9d4ykT

tomorrow's a public holiday and my girlfriend originally planned a girls outing with her gal pals.

i originally wanted to spend the day with her but no biggy...i just looked for some other pals to hang out with but in every clique i hang out with, there was someone who couldn't make it.

and today i found out that my girlfriend's outing might fall through. yet she doesn't even suggest hanging out with me tomorrow.

guess i'll be feeling lonely...

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