Well for starters i'm not a bad guy I just don't want to have a serious bf/gf relationship right now so I use the friends with benefits technique and right when I start flirting with a girl I tell her straight up "I'm not looking for a relationship right now hun so is friends with benefits okay?" and the girls say yea so ok I don't have to worry about hurting that girl but everytime I give the girls my meat they get too attached and then they start the I love you bit and then I start the see ya bit and they get pissed and treat me like a chauvenistic asshole when I clearly pointed out that I didn't want a relationship it's not fair they act like I led them on or something wtf I even started to mess with girls who sleep around and even they get mushy like what the hell i'm doing wrong here I tell them before so that they won't get hurt but they still do......
Sounds to me like you are not being picky enough with your choice of "friends". A friend with benefits needs to be more then just willing and attractive, but someone who you think will be able to handle it as clearly you know of some who can't.
It seems to me that adequate personality checking is very difficult, and you may be better off not attempting to create anymore "fuck buddies". In other words, if you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen. Like it or not lots of people will and do develop emotional feelings for coitus partners, even if they think they won't.
Dude go gay it's the best way!
"Amigos con ventaja" they usually calls here. What's the problem with the girls? Oh... well... the problems with the girls is that she understands very better than we man do that some aspects of a relationships binds for thirselfes in something more deep. The womans I had a relation with that wanted that sort of relation were finally lesbians. It's not a rule, but it's what happened to me. Now that you makes me think in that, it makes sense.
You better learn how to be with a girl as real friends. I think one can win a very, very good ally in a lot of circumstances. Just be patient.
Go for it!
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