How do you ask a girl? (5)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-12-27 04:50 ID:Na3hgSBI

I'm in love with this girl and I don't know how to tell her I love her. She doesn't live too near me and I don't see her much. Mostly I talk to her online and such. If I ask her for her number or any other question she ignores the question and seemingly gets confused if I make a gesture about it.
So how do I tell her?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-27 06:42 ID:lpGl8W9H

You're going about this the wrong way. In fact, it may already be too late.

1) DO NOT use that L word. You drop that on her, she'll put you on the blacklist forever.

2) You love this girl but you don't see her often? You've never been on a date with her? You're in LUST. Not love. Being in lust is not just thinking about sex with her. Love takes more than a dozen conversations on AIM.

3) If she's dodging your requests for a phone number, it may be over already. Back off, wait a bit, and try to start anew. Be funny. Be confident. When you get the number, wait a week and try for a date. If she says no, then you're out of luck, man.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-27 07:33 ID:Wz2PFesq

>>2

Totally agree,... You'll only think about telling about your feelings once you've been with her enough time to be certain that it's appropriate.

The best thing for you to do is to find something interesting for both of you to do together, and get to know her better in the process. It's important that she has fun when she spends time with you.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-28 08:20 ID:Vqf9BGeL

>>2

Ditto about the phone number, may already be over with her. She's not illiterate so she knows you want her number but if she's not coughing it up that sends a pretty clear message. Only hope is to back off for awhile and try to see if you can win her over.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-29 08:25 ID:PklktaXU

It's game over bro, sorry :(

I suggest you go get yourself some nice heavy metal and try to forget about her. Works for me.

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