You still don't get it.

It's not about being an asshole. It's about NOT being a pathetic doormat. Women want confident, aggressive men. You can be friends with women, but you can't EVER let them forget that you are a MAN. And to do that you have to have a little bluster, you have to have a little edge.

Being a "nice guy" is basically neutering yourself. That doesn't mean you can't be nice to women, it just means you shouldn't wrap yourself up in this "nice guy" persona. Seriously, you're making a martyr out of yourself, and no woman finds that attractive. At best you might get a "pity fuck" from the attractive women you desire. You'll be thrown a piece of pussy like a dog getting table scraps. Is that what you want?

Continue with your Mr. Nice Guy routine. I'm not saying you won't get a girl that way. But she will be the same sort of pathetic, crawling lowlife that you are, and you will have to constantly live with the knowledge that you are both settling for what you can get, along with the pervasive fear that someone like me could come along and ruin your life. And I would, given the chance, not because it would be hilarious, but because I think it would help you to grow into the man you need to be. Also it would be hilarious.

What you fail to understand is that women are crazy, irrational creatures driven by primal instincts that don't respect your notions of 'decency'. They may talk shit on 'cavemen' and 'cheesy assholes', but they regularly give it up to such men. Women are always on the look out for the 'alpha male'. And YOU, Mr. Nice Guy, are not it. You're on par with one of their girlfriends, and fit such descriptions as 'non threatening' or 'just one of the girls'.

This has nothing to do with meaningless sex or one night stands. Okay it COULD. But this holds true for women seeking RELATIONSHIPS. Believe it.