Appealing flaws (39)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-07 14:15 ID:CGehcRfj

Fuck the good sides, this is what I want, any/all:
-overly clingy
-needy for attention
-stalkerish
-totally fucking jealous
-very shy, blushes easily
-dreamy, spaces out
-untidy
-poor eyesight, a bit crosseyed, ugly glasses
-big nose
-big ears
-short
-mild acne problem
-knock-kneed
-skew teeth
-impossibly messy hair, ideally it should stand every which way in the mornings
-sloppy dresser
-tries hard but fails even harder and gets all depressed when she does
-too skinny or a bit chubby, either one is fine
-conscious about her physical flaws
-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
-mostly doesn't get my jokes
-tries to seem smart while she actually isn't, often forgets herself about this
-makes wierd noises when she laughs
-forgets herself with picking her nose
-nail-biting
-clumsy
-drools when she sleeps/laughs
-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
-got some wierd ass fetish that I totally don't get
-loves me

I don't know, I think imperfections are cute and awesome :]

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-07 18:44 ID:hR3A+Qri

My girlfriend:
-needy for attention
-stalkerish
-totally fucking jealous
-untidy
-poor eyesight, a bit crosseyed, ugly glasses
-big nose
-short
-mild acne problem
-skew teeth
-tries hard but fails even harder and gets all depressed when she does
-conscious about her physical flaws
-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
-mostly doesn't get my jokes
-tries to seem smart while she actually isn't, often forgets herself about this
-nail-biting
-clumsy
-drools when she sleeps/laughs
-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
-loves me

Does she qualify? :3

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-07 19:14 ID:CGehcRfj

lol, sounds great yeah

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-09 02:02 ID:Heaven

>>1
I'll take anything but overly clingy and skew teeth.

As for totally fucking jealous, I think that's a virtue that proves she loves me.

5 Name: Chou : 2008-03-09 19:45 ID:Jl2QoN5d

>>1

I have waaaaay too many of those imperfections D:

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-09 21:54 ID:Heaven

As a girl with a number of those flaws, this thread made me feel even worse about myself.

Cool.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 01:18 ID:CGehcRfj

>>6
Awesome, plz tell which ones?
>>5
You too hun <3

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 02:39 ID:Heaven

>>7
Well, since you asked...

-needy for attention
I act like I'm fine alone, but I love having company.

-stalkerish
I'll google your name/screen name/address late at night!

-totally fucking jealous
Very easily v_v

-very shy, blushes easily
I don't do very well with social situations ;_;

-dreamy, spaces out
My mind does wander often.

-untidy
Haha oh yeah. I can maybe keep my stuff neat for about a week at a time

-poor eyesight ... ugly glasses
I can't see ANYTHING at a distance without my glasses. Speaking of which, these are a bit big for my face and sit unevenly. Classic nerd glasses. Thick black rims.

-short
Five feet on the button~! I never really viewed that as a 'flaw' though.

-mild acne problem
I don't have perfect skin (I get a pimple and whatnot here and there) but I don't know how intense you consider mild.

-skew teeth
My bottom row. And I have a slight overbite.

-impossibly messy hair, ideally it should stand every which way in the mornings
I have very curly hair naturally, though I do take care of it I generally don't know what to do with it so it doesn't look /styled/

-sloppy dresser
I wear a uniform for school, though.

-too skinny or a bit chubby, either one is fine
I've always been chubby, though I think proportioned pretty nicely. I don't intend to change this either.

-conscious about her physical flaws
Depends on the situation... I'm not self-concious all the time, though I do know in the back of my mind.

-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
._. Most people end up confused at my humor, too.

-mostly doesn't get my jokes
Well, let's hear one of your jokes!

-nail-biting
Bad habit I've been trying to break. Keeping my nails polished and stuff seems to help this.

-clumsy
Ugh, I trip or drop my stuff all the time.

-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
I don't like getting teased when I can't tell if it's good natured or not :<

-got some wierd ass fetish that I totally don't get
kekeke

-loves me
Not yet, anyway.

9 Name: Chou : 2008-03-10 03:27 ID:Jl2QoN5d

>>7

-stalkerish
-untidy
-poor eyesight, a bit crosseyed, ugly glasses
-short
-mild acne problem
-skew teeth
-tries hard but fails even harder and gets all depressed when she does
-conscious about her physical flaws
-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
-clumsy
-tries to seem smart while she actually isn't, often forgets herself about this

That's a pretty long list, but it's truthful D:

The last one is kinda true, I know things, I just can't put everything in words

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 06:26 ID:CGehcRfj

>>8
Oh lawd I'm in love
I think you should just marry me

>>I act like I'm fine alone, but I love having company.

lol me too

>>I'll google your name/screen name/address late at night!

I totally do that, amagad we have so much in common!

>>Very easily v_v

Super-cute

>>Haha oh yeah. I can maybe keep my stuff neat for about a week at a time

I can't period

>>I can't see ANYTHING at a distance without my glasses. Speaking of which, these are a bit big for my face and sit unevenly. Classic nerd glasses. Thick black rims.

lol, I'd hide your glasses all the time. Then I would probably forget where I put them, still hilarious tho'

>>Five feet on the button~! I never really viewed that as a 'flaw' though.

Nah, it's a perfect size for picking up and cuddling

>>My bottom row. And I have a slight overbite.

Excellent, I just love fucked up teeth. Braces too but, that sort of conflicts with the former so

>>I have very curly hair naturally

That's so hawt

>>I wear a uniform for school, though.

I think you should do it all the time :]

>>I've always been chubby, though I think proportioned pretty nicely. I don't intend to change this either.

Definitely should not

>>._. Most people end up confused at my humor, too.

lol, I just love awkward moments

>>Well, let's hear one of your jokes!

I don't pull jokes, rite. I stick to sarcasm and situational humor.

>>Bad habit I've been trying to break

Yeah it is kind of nasty...

>>Ugh, I trip or drop my stuff all the time.

Beautiful

>>I don't like getting teased when I can't tell if it's good natured or not :<

I don't like it to tell, just ruins the fun imo

>>kekeke

Um...

>>Not yet, anyway.

Well I think you should

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 06:35 ID:8Cy9B9pw

>>1
Most of them might be sorta cute. I don't like:

-untidy
At least not too much.

-poor eyesight, a bit crosseyed, ugly glasses
I don't mind the eyesight, but crosseyed is "..." and ugly glasses can be fixed.

-sloppy dresser
Could also be fixed.

-big nose
-big ears
-knock-kneed
-skew teeth
No thanks.

-forgets herself with picking her nose
ugh.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 06:54 ID:ZinGCpLf

I like most of the things in OP's list and a hint of tsundere is nice

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 06:57 ID:Z7PblZLY

This is a weird thread.

-overly clingy
Quite the opposite.

-needy for attention
Not really. I like going out and doing things with people, talking to people, I like being around people and having their attention focused on me when I say something, but I'm not needy.

-stalkerish
I might google your screen name if I really like you, but I'll also feel really bad about it.

-totally fucking jealous
Hah, no.

-very shy, blushes easily
Sometimes.

-dreamy, spaces out
That's me.

-untidy
Yeah.

-poor eyesight, a bit crosseyed, ugly glasses
I have near perfect eyesight, but I want glasses.

-big nose
I hate my nose.

-big ears
No.

-short
No.

-mild acne problem
Yeah.

-knock-kneed
No... I don't even know what that means, honestly.

-skew teeth
I have perfect teeth.

-impossibly messy hair, ideally it should stand every which way in the mornings
No.

-sloppy dresser
Sometimes.

-tries hard but fails even harder and gets all depressed when she does
No, I'm a rather upbeat, happy person who usually either succeeds or is able to deal with failure.

-too skinny or a bit chubby, either one is fine
Neither apply.

-conscious about her physical flaws
Yeah.

-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
Yeah.

-mostly doesn't get my jokes
Depends, are your jokes any good?

-tries to seem smart while she actually isn't, often forgets herself about this
No, I'm smart but I act like an idiot.

-makes wierd noises when she laughs
Heh, I don't know...

-forgets herself with picking her nose
Ew, no.

-nail-biting
Yeah.

-clumsy
Yeah.

-drools when she sleeps/laughs
When I sleep maybe, when I laugh now.

-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
I actually like being teased.

-got some wierd ass fetish that I totally don't get
Heh, who knows?

-loves me
Not really.

I think you're just looking for a girl you can feel some power over... which is understandable, I'm currently chasing a boy because I know I can get him without risking too much hurt.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 07:35 ID:ZinGCpLf

>>13

>>I think you're just looking for a girl you can feel some power over... which is understandable, I'm currently chasing a boy because I know I can get him without risking too much hurt.

That's not true (for me). The clingy, attention seeking (as in seeking my attention), stalkerish, and jealous type is appealing because it makes me feel like she loves me or that I'm wanted.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 09:44 ID:Heaven

This thread is depressing.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 10:26 ID:Heaven

What if we used the word quirks instead of flaws? I've never really considered any of the things listed as flaws but too much of a thing can be a bit scary and become a flaw; especially the stalker thing.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 10:29 ID:Heaven

>>10
Haa.

Well, OP, do you have somewhere I could contact you? I never met someone who found my flaws so appealing before.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 12:54 ID:CGehcRfj

>>I think you're just looking for a girl you can feel some power over...

Interesting theory. I just consider these things cute tbh. It's childishly adorable. I think people who have a problem with needing and closeness etc. just have a fear of rejection. Because I think all people naturally have a huge need for being seen, accepted and wanted, that's why some are so afraid of it. It's a defensive mechanism to take distance to things that are emotionally hurtful. Children are very open with these kind of behaviours; jealousy, clingyness, needing, but as we grow older we also grow colder.. As you illustrate below, I don't really have that problem

>>which is understandable, I'm currently chasing a boy because I know I can get him without risking too much hurt.

>>15
Ah come on.. wat? Do you take yourself too seriously or something? :\

>>16
Sure quirks, I like that better too

>>17
Well, you can have one of my secondary addresses(lomskhynda at hotmail), I check it sometimes. Send me a mail. I doubt we live even remotely close to eachother however, I don't think there is a single school in my country where we have dressing codes.

To the rest, I expect a flood of trolling, send me disturbing pictures or impersonate >>17
Don't let me down

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-10 17:35 ID:fZOLplJ1

>Children are very open with these kind of behaviours; jealousy, clingyness, needing, but as we grow older we also grow colder..

The other word for that is becoming mature and self-reliant.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-11 06:05 ID:CGehcRfj

>>The other word for that is becoming mature and self-reliant.

The other word for those is being a hypocrite. I don't know about you but after having been an adult myself for some time, hanging out with other adults on an equal level, I've come to the conclusion that maturity and self-reliance is all pretense.

So why would I want that in a girlfriend? Grownups are fucking childish, so it just irritates me that they try to hide it, it's nothing but a waste of time and energy. It would be better for everyone if we were just honest with ourselves and eachother.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-11 06:27 ID:aD+MpCrE

What's wrong with knowing that you're able to take care of yourself? I know I can survive alone, without people to support me; I don't particularly enjoy doing so, but I can do it.

Having someone constantly cling to you is annoying. Feeling like you're someone's only support is annoying, because it's impossible to always be there.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-11 13:15 ID:VdEnGbFr

My flaws are not appealing. cries
Self centred, mistrustful, overweight, negative, critical, perverted, ugly voice, almost arrogant, probably others too lol.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-11 20:59 ID:/BESMUIv

Eh, when you've been hunting for a while, you jsut plain stop chasing. The real key (at least most of the time) is to flaunt what ya got and SHOW CONFIDENCE. You chase folk, you won't get very far, imo. You show confidence and a little daring (at least from a man's perspective) and it goes a loooooooong way, keeps 'em guessing too, which is always a fun game to play... then instead of chasing, you're being swarmed :D

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-12 05:31 ID:Zxn3Zn8m

-overly clingy
-needy for attention
-stalkerish
-very shy, blushes easily
-dreamy, spaces out
-untidy
-poor eyesight, a bit crosseyed, ugly glasses
-short
-tries hard but fails even harder and gets all depressed when she does
-conscious about her physical flaws
-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
-mostly doesn't get my jokes
-tries to seem smart while she actually isn't, often forgets herself about this
-nail-biting
-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
-got some wierd ass fetish that I totally don't get
-loves me

Describes my gf pretty well. All pleasant little imperfections except the whole "needs attention" thing which gets rather tiring. Would actually be kinda awesome to see her alittle more messy in a nerdy sort of way.

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-17 13:36 ID:eJLNjEgx

I am/have/do:

-overly clingy
-very shy, blushes easily
-dreamy, spaces out
-untidy
-short
-sloppy dresser
-too skinny or a bit chubby, either one is fine
-conscious about her physical flaws
-stupid humor, laughs at random things and gets embarassed
-makes wierd noises when she laughs
-clumsy
-drools when she sleeps
-gets awfully mad when I tease her, tries to hide it but fails
-got some wierd ass fetish that I totally don't get
-loves me

My flaws attract the wrong type of guys all the time though. They always turn out to be hopeless romantics who have this preconceived idea that I'm all sweet, innocent and dependent. Despite the fact that I depict this clumsy, spaced out girl, I'm actually very down to earth, borderline cynical and extremely observant.

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-17 20:54 ID:CGehcRfj

>>I'm actually very down to earth, borderline cynical and extremely observant

All excellent traits imo, it's ok to show them more strongly and I guess you should do that. Then perhaps you will attract the "right kind of guys"... Whatever kind of guys they are, hopeless unromantics?

Personally tho' I don't really see how clumsy/spaced out connects to sweet/innocent/dependent but not down-to-earth/cynical/observant. I think it's probably more about shyness if anything

>>drools when she sleeps

lol I particularly like that one. All those precious moments

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-17 23:47 ID:M41wA2Dc

-dead

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-18 03:26 ID:+TufFr/5

>>27

I love you.

29 Name: Hidari : 2008-03-30 17:19 ID:CkI5g+2w

>>1
I have quiet a bit of these flaws myself...although I don't really consider them flaws but yeah...i'm proud of most...not all but most...flaws are what make u u so why not enjoy them ^.^

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-30 19:40 ID:CGehcRfj

>>29
Exactly

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-30 20:02 ID:UTE2tnrc

>>1

What you are searching for is a geek girl, nothing more needs to be said.

32 Name: Hidari : 2008-03-30 23:04 ID:CkI5g+2w

>>31
I wouldn't go that far as to saying he's looking 4 a geek girl...i think he wants something closely tied in with the whole wabi-sabi thing...ya'know...perfection in things imperfect

33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 00:44 ID:CGehcRfj

>>32
A geek girl would be nice but an artsy girl would be even better, we'd have much in common. But yes you are correct. I guess, being an artist as I am, I like unique features with personality, and am fascinated with the special ways that people have, what gives their identity flavour.

It really is easier for me to fall for quirky girls with "imperfections" in both appearance and personality. It makes me see them easier, it's like they have taste and colour while I find "perfect" girls to be rather bland.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 03:43 ID:UTE2tnrc

>>31 here, i lol'd so haaaaard ;; since i actually am a geek girl (and an artist in training btw, yeah, i fall into _that category too) hence why i said that. Some of those flaws are just too off for me though, I never really failed at anything that i tried hard to accomplish, I'm not clingy or jealous or neither do i have stalking tendencies. I'm very easily embarrassed anyway ;_; but I'm not very goofy or w/e, I just tend to spend lots of ours drooling myself while drawing, listening to music and smoking pot. And God do i love to stare at the landscape rofl.

Yeah, daydreamer type right here, even if I have the ideas I can never get myself to do anything, which pretty much invalidates this: I never really failed at anything that i tried hard to accomplish considering that i only tried hard for anything in my life like... 3 or 4 times OTL

Oh and, yeah, I'm quite the kinky sex freak OTL all artists or wanna-be artists are in a certain time of their life.

Sorry I kinda let myself go and i ended up talking way too much about myself... Reading this thread well... i realized those are actually very accurate "flaws" and that i have quite a few of them, it intrigued me ;_;

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 07:22 ID:CGehcRfj

>>Sorry I kinda let myself go and i ended up talking way too much about myself...

I'm not complaining :]

>>i realized those are actually very accurate "flaws"

They are more or less based on girls I've known, fallen for and/or who have fallen for me. It's like every girl or woman I've ever loved gives me something new to appriciate, and over the years I suppose it has added up to quite a lot.
I can recall memories for everything I've mentioned here.

>>I'm quite the kinky sex freak

May I ask of what kind? ;)

36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 14:16 ID:Heaven

>>34
drooling while drawing is kind of disturbing actually.

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 17:10 ID:o2WINvNh

>>36
yeah, it kinda is, specially when you are the one who is drawing ;_;

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 17:28 ID:o2WINvNh

Oh, i over looked the last part in >35's post, sorry about that.

>>May I ask of what kind? ;)

I have an overall likeness for all that is kinky really, I get off on satisfying other people's fetishes, i like giving pleasure, watching people in ecstasy is really really hot. Other than that I'm into BDSM, I like playing submissive and doing slave roleplays... yeah, its embarrassing, thank god for anonymity ;_; LOL

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-31 17:57 ID:CGehcRfj

>>i like giving pleasure, watching people in ecstasy is really really hot.

Exactly my thoughts, nothing turns me on more.

>>Other than that I'm into BDSM, I like playing submissive and doing slave roleplays...

I like being in charge <3

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