OP here. She seems ok now she was a bit sad over the break up for a few days and she seems fine now. But I looked at her myspace and facebook and she's still listen as 'in a relationship' I know it doesn't mean they got back together, maybe she hasn't changed it or something. But how do I find out that they are not together anymore without bringing it up. Also I am not friends with any of her friends. Halp.