ok my gf talks about how hot one of my guy friend right in front of me. and she does it constantly...wtf?
She's a slut?
tell her to stop. she either doesnt know, wants to make you jealous or is really thinking other guy more than you. my girlfriend from time to time will say this guy is hot, but it will be like brad pitt.
your gf is too much of an attention whore, just use her and dump
slap that bitch
shes probably doing it on purpose to see how youll react. or shes trying to get you to dump her so she can act heartbroken and run to him
shit test alert!
i don't know hows the best way to respond but don't get insecure or angry...she might be pleased if you do in the short term but she'll get turned off by that in the long term...its all biological mate!
Just play along and agree, it will make her laugh or confuse her. Either way, it makes you not look like a jealous jerk. She's with you for a reason, so unless she's making lots of plans with this guy individually and spending more time with him than you and is giving you bad vibes, don't worry. As I said, she's dating YOU, and its just as easy for her to leave you if she's disinterested.
My best friend's girlfriend always says how Im much more ideal for her, how Im her usual body type/personality/interest choice. Like, says this in front of him, or to him, with me there. But shes with him (and I dont want her), and he knows shes dedicated to him.
I totally understand your frustration (Ive had similar experiences) but try to accept that he's not a threat, until he makes a move obviously. She can and will leave you if she wants this guy, but if she is exhibiting no signs of this (outside of your paranoia)... take a couple deep breaths and just laugh it off.
I have experiances like this with my gf.
what i do, is I agree with her. here's how our last one went
her: omg babe, you're friend (so and so) is so cute
me: i know yea? i mean seriously. i tap that every night.
her: wait... say that again?
me: I had sex with him last night. it was really hot and sweaty
her: XD (never talks about him again)
you see, if you stay comidic about it, things work out well lol
All retarded replies aside, your girlfriend doesn't seem too interested in you.
listen to this man
Yeah listen to him and not me who gave practically identical advice 26 hours previously
We were listening to you too!
Dude, I say lay down the law!!!! w/ your woman, just kidding...
if your girl friend is talking about other guys like that, she is a hypocrite girl who thinks of herself as a gentle person who would never hurt someone else... therefore, she probably has been dropping other hints about you not being the right person for her, and apparently you must have been a very dense person... and now she's resorting to "Look at that guy!" tactic.
if thats not the case, well she's a ho... and you can't turn a ho into a housewife... jokes aside I don't agree with 9 at all..
hmm i don't remember this happening to me with my girl friends, hmm well one of them was my best friend before we started going out so she used to try to screw with my head why i pissed her off by talking about other guys but laughter or some other sign that it isnt serious always followed..
but one thing you can always do in any situation with girls who are fickle by nature is to keep your composure and don't ever overreact b/c women are fickle and its their nature
peace and eat more cookies
>therefore, she probably has been dropping other hints about you not being the right person for her, and apparently you must have been a very dense person... and now she's resorting to "Look at that guy!" tactic
If OP wasn't the right person for her, she would have dumped her or just fucked somebody else. What's going on here seems to be that she is just talking about stuff that she sees no problem with, but its actually very hurtful for a guy to hear those things. I just don't think shes thought about how it would feel for her if it was the other way round, and so is just saying things that she should keep to herself.
personally.. i don't think this is something to worry about.
I don't think his gf is interested in the other guy or anything.
If she just mentioned his looks, well she might think that he looks great, but it just seems like a comment more than anything else.
It's not like you see a pretty girl on the street and you want to be w/ her and dump your girlfriend!
I think if she's open enough to talk about your friend being hot; then she's assuming that you're open-minded enough to just listen to her w/o being too sensitive.
I wouldn't confront her or anything and tell her how uncomfortable that makes you feel-- cuz she'll be so careful w/ her words being with you-- and that'll just ruin the time you guys have together. Like what others said, just go along with her.
thats why OP should just use her and dump her because she's an inconsiderate & immature whore
Yeah... I think you really should just tell her "yeah, he's kinda the cute boy, I hope he finds himself a cute girlfriend", etc.
Or as >>9 said, just use a funny line. "Yeah, if I hadn't the luck to have you I'd definitely do him."
Tell her that she has small tits.
You're all stupid
Well, what a comment above all.
What if a girl who isnt really your gf but every now and then sleap together with you, but talks to other guys blokes fellas on skype msn yahoo messenger or what so ever etc. How do you deal with this kinda girl who actually makes you thought you're the one for her, but the next day she sleeps with someone elses without letting you know or pretend shes busy out somewhere, or could be dating another guy either online or outside on the street or even making up anything to try and avoid ignore ya for the day or night, when you know you are supposed to be at her place but she wont let ya? etc
She's not a whorse or either bitchies or sluts. Just a divoced woman living with a kid without husband, and she enjoyed chatting online that she would talk to anyone from anywhere within any other places in the world, as long as she could handle the day of her own spare time. etc so on so forth.
Wouldn't that be little more than just weird do you think? A woman want you to sleep with her, but than she talks to other guys online on messengers while you knew exactly what shes off to or doing, but the real thing is, she doesnt seem to be care that she might say this to you "it doesnt matter, or none of your business to concerned" etc, she also might said you can do the same as me find another girl to talk to I dont care at all.
That just too .. .ohh dear or dear .. goodness me .. cant help. I cant explain more in detail than this for the day, theres alot more to this ... .
To be continue on soonish.. .
Any advices or suggestion??
ta ta
>>21
I had a girlfriend like this once. She was a giant slut. I respected her deeply as a person, don't get me wrong, but in terms of emotional relationships she was the most promiscuous whore I'd ever known.
So, dump her, or whatever you'd do to cut off your sexual and emotional interactions. If you keep expecting uninterrupted romance, you'll just hurt yourself more. It's not worth the trouble.
Well,To: >>21 and everyone!!
I agreed to what you're trynna said there, but the whole thing and the situation is really as just as weird as you possibly could already imagine. Think again, A girl want you to sleep with her, but when every time I am at her place/house. She goes online carefully and privately talk to other guys from msn or yahoo skypey whilist I am in her house doing nothing except kept sitting there or lying there wondering who she might be having conversation with etc.
What shxt me is that, every time when she talked to someone she kept mentioning about how dirty the other guy is/was, and she doesnt delete them but instead she told me how long they've been met online since, and I just couldn't work out why she doesnt delete instead of keeping it etc?? that weird dont you think so??
Man, what could really get worse is that she hide it from herself or when I am not near or around her, that she goes online talking to other guys, I mean how do you deal with that?? she's not a slutty bitchy for sure nor neither a whorse. But that really pissing me off in the head that she kepts talking to shitty's like that and telling me how bad it was.
What else?? exactly, leave her alone is one big thing, but can you really live without having her cute smiley face everyday though?? its hard isnt it, when you like someone but you dont really wana give up just as it is, how can you simply give her away to someone elses that easily dude?? I cant just walk out and say thats it, Im out. It's not working mate, no . .
any ideas or suggestions?? please indeed anyone everyone
Peace out, life can only be one meserable thing, that life is hard to understand sometimes.
Regards!! Cheers mate.
Well,To: >>21 and everyone!!
I agreed to what you're trynna said there, but the whole thing and the situation is really as just as weird as you possibly could already imagine. Think again, A girl want you to sleep with her, but when every time I am at her place/house. She goes online carefully and privately talk to other guys from msn or yahoo skypey whilist I am in her house doing nothing except kept sitting there or lying there wondering who she might be having conversation with etc.
What shxt me is that, every time when she talked to someone she kept mentioning about how dirty the other guy is/was, and she doesnt delete them but instead she told me how long they've been met online since, and I just couldn't work out why she doesnt delete instead of keeping it etc?? that weird dont you think so??
Man, what could really get worse is that she hide it from herself or when I am not near or around her, that she goes online talking to other guys, I mean how do you deal with that?? she's not a slutty bitchy for sure nor neither a whorse. But that really pissing me off in the head that she kepts talking to shitty's like that and telling me how bad it was.
What else?? exactly, leave her alone is one big thing, but can you really live without having her cute smiley face everyday though?? its hard isnt it, when you like someone but you dont really wana give up just as it is, how can you simply give her away to someone elses that easily dude?? I cant just walk out and say thats it, Im out. It's not working mate, no . .
any ideas or suggestions?? please indeed anyone everyone
Peace out, life can only be one meserable thing, that life is hard to understand sometimes.
Regards!! Cheers mate.
Well,To: >>21 and everyone!!
I agreed to what you're trynna said there, but the whole thing and the situation is really as just as weird as you possibly could already imagine. Think again, A girl want you to sleep with her, but when every time I am at her place/house. She goes online carefully and privately talk to other guys from msn or yahoo skypey whilist I am in her house doing nothing except kept sitting there or lying there wondering who she might be having conversation with etc.
What shxt me is that, every time when she talked to someone she kept mentioning about how dirty the other guy is/was, and she doesnt delete them but instead she told me how long they've been met online since, and I just couldn't work out why she doesnt delete instead of keeping it etc?? that weird dont you think so??
Man, what could really get worse is that she hide it from herself or when I am not near or around her, that she goes online talking to other guys, I mean how do you deal with that?? she's not a slutty bitchy for sure nor neither a whorse. But that really pissing me off in the head that she kepts talking to shitty's like that and telling me how bad it was.
What else?? exactly, leave her alone is one big thing, but can you really live without having her cute smiley face everyday though?? its hard isnt it, when you like someone but you dont really wana give up just as it is, how can you simply give her away to someone elses that easily dude?? I cant just simply walk out like that and say thats it, its done its over, Im out. It's not working mate, sometimes things just dont follow the way you want, of course not . . and it is very annoyed, learn to let her go, the question is, how far do you think she can go without it?? she could easily find another to sleep with but than for guys, what do all males do these days?? get laid isnt it?? its lot easier for female to try and find a male, not vice versa for sure!! this is like one of them dayz you know..
any ideas or suggestions?? please indeed anyone everyone
Peace out, life can only be one meserable thing, that life is hard to understand sometimes.
Regards!! Cheers mate.
Sup anyone and holla to everyone here. .
Why is this website kept saying wrong vertification codes?? I entered so many times, but the thing just kept bloody popping up saying its wrong vertification codes?? damned.. felt dodgy for this, cant even stop wengging about it.
it gets bit paranoid when you entered the correct vertification codes but you just cant get through it, how can this?? anyone can tell me this??
On your screen see that column with VERTIFICATION: and yeah exactly enter the words you see on there, but it doesnt work straight away sometimes?? I've been entered so many times finally get through it. its stucked sometimes or lagged jammed??
Refresh the captcha doesnt help much either, wait for bloody long 60 seconds, what do we get?? nothing?? its all the same thing over and over again.
Can anyone fix this or anyone cum acrossed this situation as well before?? man same shxt different dayz really is. farkz me!!
Peace mate peace out.
Regards cheers mate!!
>>26
The verification code is there to ensure that people don't dump fifty metric tons of bullshit on the site all at one time. I haven't been having any problems with it but maybe it's different on your end.
As for your lady, I think as long as she's honest with you about how she fucks around and how she doesn't mind if you do too, there's no problem there. The only question is whether you're comfortable with that arrangement. If you're not, just tell her and walk out the door. There's always another woman, it is really not that hard to find them.
No, the real problem is when a girl is all fucking clingy and swears she was waiting for you while you were overseas for a year and wants you not to go back even though you have to, and yet one goddamn month earlier she was talking to you on skype about the cute Moroccan guy she met at college and how great he is. Good riddance, though, I didn't like her anyway. I think she has some kind of emotional problem, but I don't care. She's an adult, she can take care of that on her own.
TO: >>26
well, how can you have more clingy than is already is. we shall remain sticked to the way as it is, and yeah, I totally agreed with ya saying there, that you mentioned about just tell her let her know walk out and finding another women isnt that hard to do so. But the truth is, do you or yourself ever realised that finding another women could be a bad thing, compared to the previous ones!!?? cuz the reason why I am telling you this, its becuz, after you walked out, you might not wana return again or she might not let ya forever and never. Then that the time you gonna get really real harsh feelings and harm feelings and harms. How can you get clingy and riddance??
I cant figure out a way, but you're right of what you're saying there, I totally have no comments there. Good thinking mate, thumbs up anyways.
I personally believed that, the old sayings are: its plenty of fishes in the sea not just one. That really make bloody hell of sense dont you reckon??
For almost every relationships, theres always walk out's and stay in's. You can only choose one for sure. Other than that, after walking out that door, there no returns, and if theres a return, things might get either worse or complicated and hard to solve with problems and issues.
Man walk out is really the way, keeping out from troublesome stay out issues.
Regards mate.
ta ta
Alright here the thing:
earlier I did mentioned about myself meeting a weird women that I couldnt even work out what on her mind, but things sticked and remain the same as it is fortunatelly.
For crying out loud, I would like to ask anyone one of yous here or whoever is reading this, feel free to give us any advices or which ever on your minds. Just drop your ideas and advices will do.
Regarding to the question about "Womens", I've cummed acrossed one recently, shes like just got broked up with another guy last year or wasnt that long ago, something like 2011 somewhere like that!! Anyways, now I met her she met me, what we do is sleep eat drink piss up and downs, you know the routines for everyday living, that you got up and eat drink sleep etc.
But she is often online chatting with guys especially during night times or when I am not around. She doesnt share much about who shes talking to, acting quite normal but little bit weird. That she would turn you into other things when once she started to realised she has done something aganist or wrong to you. How do you deal with this kinda thing??
I know my questions is bit hard to understand, but Im trying to do my best for asking for supports, cuz myself are in the situation right now, you know, she kepts me not just curious or wondering, but when I gotta work during the day time, she is at home the whole day doing her own business. Now, lets say if she did met another guy online during the previous night, she would've managed the time for the next day after I left early in the morning. Well then, if this does happen, what do you do then?? IM ONLY GUESSING HERE, cuz I cant tell whether she does or she doesnt, its a hard thing to say and tell. lets say it does happend, what do you do to make the whole entire situation better?? without. .. what your say about this??
The other thing is, what would you people reader's recommend me to do?? any advices?? the story is pretty long, but I am not going into every details in bits and pieces. . its too much and this page wont even fit.
Reply first then will continue on or stuff like that ..
Cheers mate bro!!
It's different for every person. It sounds like you have an "open relationship", and if that works for you and her, then great. If it doesn't work for you, then it's better to tell her in case things get out of hand later.
If you're worried about walking out on her and then having regrets, well, that's life. Either you stay with a girl and put up with the parts of her you don't like, or you dump her and never look back, and if you have regrets, you just have to deal with them. In my case, the cons of staying with my girlfriend outweighed the pros so much that I'm happy I left her, even though it meant I was alone again. I'm fine being alone. But some people aren't. You have to judge for yourself.
Ohh well, another day just past by, things arent really get into the way we really want. what else can I say??
Man, being with a ladie isnt a easiest thing sometimes, she want me to do everything for her, if its not working than she then will be pissed off or even get mad. I cant figure out how the personality between me and her. But things seems not getting the way we want sometimes.
shes one of the kind like no any other. I cant explain more than this, it is just sometimes pissing me off in the head where I couldn't work out what is really on her mind that makes her attitude going mad. it is okay for her to do what she likes to do, but then it is not right for me to do what I wanted to do?!! how can this work?? I cant see anything from this. Its so bloody terriable so mad. not cool man.
Can anyone tell me, what will you do if you live with a lady like she got strong attitude and almost everything she has got a opinion in them? how can you live with a lady like that?? I mean it is not working, and if it does work, things wont go our ways. I dont stand on top of someone because of this and that to get more advantages out of someone you know.
So can anyone help me on this kinda thing??
thanked and plaesed!! Cheer mate.