It seems to me that you still as obsessed with her as you were before and you're just telling yourself things have changed. I can because you aren't pulling away to let go, you're pulling away so she'll notice.

You're probably really be able to move on when you meet someone else.

Off topic here, if a girl confessed to you and you had ZERO attraction to her, I mean you never even LOOKED AT HER and then suddenly she started acting distance, would you even care?