I've just started dating a girl online again (we went for a break) and things are going great except 2 things.

1. I can't get her to get sexual (pictures, etc) but she'll talk about sex.
2. She has gone on some stupid college thing for a month and will probably not be able to speak to me until she gets back.

Am I wasting my time here? The sexy stuff isn't the only thing I want but without it nothing has changed since we were friends. Is there anyway I can speed up the process because I'm really thinking of leaving her.