Date help! (4)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-27 19:26 ID:xsiOo7b5

I don't post too much about myself on here, but this time I need some help. I've never been the type to want a girlfriend really, unless I really like her. I prefer casual dating, though of course I'm barely now getting the hang of it.

So I've been on a few dates with this girl, and after the first one she began calling me ALOT, which put me off. Maybe I'm not just used to this, I don't know. Anyway she wants to go out again, but I am not sure. Of course there isn't a commitment (I haven't confessed anything) so I might be making a big deal out of nothing. So should I just politely start pulling away or am I making a big deal out of nothing?

I don't like feeling stressed out about this stuff...

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-27 20:04 ID:l2lyBDIp

>>1
Just tell her exactly that. If she understands it'll be okay, if she doesn't then just tell her to back off and your problem is solved.

Win-win situation.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-29 17:07 ID:y/Xftzdi

it sounds like she likes you and she just wants more attention from you.
how many times does she call you? like every day? 4 times a day or does it seem like a lot because youre not used to female calling you tryig to get your attention?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-29 21:22 ID:7N8EmC5d

holy fuck listen to 2
In fact, that response should just be copy and pasted into every single thread. It's not like the truth is going to hurt more than senselessly trying to understand something you can't until things get worse and shit hits the fan.

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