K.... so um....
I have been kinda in love with my best friends brother for the past 4 years or so. Technically three, cause within the last year he turned from the amazing intelectual and all around amazing guy into a total douche bag. He got addicted to WOW, and moved to Calgary and basically became a self absorbed hermit. Bleg. Before we used to talk all the time about all sorts of intellectual stuff, from his philosophy and theology homework in college, all the way up to me helping him right his college entrance essay. And he could make me laugh all the time it was great. But like i said after he move away he turned horrid. But i kept in liking him anyway. Until this last year where he though it would be funny to start joking around about drinking his brains out (he knows i hate alchoholics cause my dad was one) and getting hookers (which i mean common is just disgusting) so i basically lost all contact with him but kept in touch with his sister.
The year past and i had some crushes one i thought was even pretty major but nothing like him. Then this summer, he comes out to visit the camp i work at. The same place we first met. And all of a sudden he was the same person i remembered. He was funny and smart, and we could keep out tet-e-tet up as though nothing had ever changed. i would even go as far as to say he was even closer then before. He has been back a couple times since and it has been just the same. if not increasing in his flirtiness. We have been keeping in touch again through facebook (incert boo's here) and Msn, and its been great.
His sisters know that i like him and the one is totally ok with it and the other is so absorbed with planning his life out with this other girl she kinda looked over it. But she did admit that a while back he had liked me but she had put him off because she didn't think i had the right "way of thinking of things like he did" which was total bull!! Her and her mom have even gone as far as thinking over which of the two of us would be better for him. (Just between me and this other girl)
I know the other girl used to like him but from last i heard she doesn't and more, and from what i hear from his sister, she thinks he still likes her from a while back but i mean i know her and i know they dont talk about stuff like that she is going on pure assumption which has been wrong so many times before.
I guess what i am asking is. What do i do????
>intellectual.
>theology.
That aside, how about you tell him all of that directly? I mean, what are you waiting for? It's been 4 years already! Tell him everything. Things will work themselves afterwards.
2 is right
ha ha ha ha
for the fail!!! :P
k welll... i dunno maybe cause he is my best friends brother... and i dunnno.....
k fuck, i have never been asked out let alone doing any asking
i am so freaked out that i am wrong!!
p.s.
plus his sister would totally hate me for ruining her life plans for him and i am friend with this other girl and what if she still likes him!!
and i mean he is also one of those more traditional guys who i think would be totally turned off if i did the asking
>he is also one of those more traditional guys who i think would be totally turned off if i did the asking
And I say you're probably wrong.
Well it may seem like he became addicted to WOW, became a hermit, or loser in general. But if the fact is that you are in fact from Edmonton and he moved to Calgary I am most definitely sure he realized how much better women were here and just decided to ignore you. He was probably having so much fun, actually clubbing in a "downtown", (look it up you should visit one sometime) without native people hoarding over asking for change.
Simpsons point of view:
Calgary - Springfield
Edmonton - Shelbyville