is there really a right moment when to say this?
my gf has been in my life for longer than a year and we have some serious future plans. she's not my first gf, but the first one i had sexual intercourse with. i know she has had little past experience before we met. i lost my virginity to her at the age of 22 and she's even a few years younger.
so, I'm asking girls, and why not guys too, for your opinion... maybe she might think it's kinda like an honour or maybe she might think that because she's the only one i'm still going for other women for experience and she will doubt our future plans. i don't even know why I'm saying this, because it probably depends on the person, but I guess I just wanted to write it down.
because we're both kinda shy we tend to write some intimate things by e-mail. do you think this is something that should be absolutely said face-to-face or is it not such a big deal? i want to say it, because i want to be open and honest with her, but i don't know if i can do it irl. it's easier for me to put my thoughts in a mail.
If writing e-mails and disgussing intimate things via e-mail is normal for you guys, why not write her.
I'm a girl and would probably think it's cute and I would be glad that you shared this info with me.
I don't know if your girlfriend tends to be insecure and jealous, if so, then she might worry about you seeking further experience. But then you should reconsider your future plans anyway - a relationship without trust can hardly work.
Good luck! Although I think you won't need it, it's not such a big deal, I think.
lol, how about telling my gf my dad was my first ahahahaha
You've known her for over a year and yet you are still not comfortable enough in each others company to discuss intimate issues? Doesn't sound like a particularly well founded relationship to me.