What is the condition of your own life? Are you a female hikki as well, or are you a highly social person?

As callous as this may sound, I think you did the right thing. You didn't love him the way he loved you, and it's simply ludicrous for him to expect that you would dedicate your life to him if that's not what you wanted. You would have been miserable so that he could be happy. That's never how things should work.