I'm fuckin weird (10)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-17 18:07 ID:w3WxBCPs

I like to be mean to girls. If a girl is not my type or mediocre, I'll often ignore her or be downright mean to her. Like she's not pretty enough to have me. Hot girls are even more fun because they think they're the shit. And girls are fun because they get mad when you tease them.

I can do this because I'm not looking for a relationship. I mean, I am unemployed and don't have a car, so what use is it to have a girl right now? Anyway, I don't know why but I think I'm becoming a model abusive boyfriend type and that scares me.

2 Name: Otakun : 2008-11-17 19:26 ID:OyRKSnCC

Just got to tone it down some. Just lower it down to playful teasing if you can't stop right away. I really don't know what to tell you but just suck it up I guess.

3 Name: Otakun : 2008-11-17 19:29 ID:OyRKSnCC

Try to change bit by bit because once you're really on the mean path then its hard to get off. Being mean is becoming a gut instinct, so try to do something nice every day

4 Name: Scotland : 2008-11-18 23:52 ID:OznuEZkd

i have a similar problem but not to the extend that im ignoring or mean, more like doing stuff that will annoy her, usually teasing, juggling and hiding her stuff, and some other annoying everyday things, but i think she kinda enjoys it cause she gives me the evil look (eyes thinned like: -.-) then smiles, which is weird. i have the exact same reason that i enjoying playing around like that cause im not looking for a relationship, cause my money is tied with getting a drive and a new flat and i agree with you that there isnt a point right now to get a gf since she isnt gonna be happy if your with her.

and >>1
as for you thinking your becoming a model abusive boyfriend type, as long as you stick to the no hitting girls rules unless she has a weapon and attacks.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-19 00:34 ID:1A6c/Zir

Well, assuming you had a girlfriend, would you treat her the same way that you would these girls?

I mean, if you're not absolutely BENT on tormenting women, and just doing it in your spare time... you never know, maybe you might find a girl who likes being treated like a rejected slut and you'll get along great. Have your fun when she's feeling into it, but treat her right when she needs it.

Taking delight in the torment of others... mmm...

On the other hand, if you do it all the time because it's your nature, you'll probably find relationships difficult anyway. Repeatedly tormenting someone could be considered abusive behavior, if its severe enough and they take it to heart. Hell, you don't even really have to be her boyfriend to abuse her this way.

At the end of the day, the difference between normal and maniacal are how you act... I think most women are ugly, fat, and/or sluts too, but I don't tell them. As such, I am still on speaking terms with a bunch of ugly fat sluts. Go figure.

6 Name: Scotland : 2008-11-20 19:24 ID:HDsCu2dL

>>5
still in speeching terms with a bunch of ugly fat sluts. go figure

lol, that sorta reminds me of myself, since i dont insult people unless they screwed me up. so ya, everytime i walk through town, i need to give a wave to a couple of people.

7 Name: Mandy : 2008-11-21 22:46 ID:3o0xDbvt

9_9.... IMO i love that in a man! <3

8 Name: Scotland : 2008-11-22 17:22 ID:+L/wr5a/

>>7
me thinks you are weird, u like guys that act mean by teasing and annoying? not to mention a guy that doesnt have the luxery to be thinking about having a gf, and are too focused on their problems.
like i said in my other comment, it wouldnt make you happy.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-22 23:01 ID:Heaven

>>8 don't take >>7 seriously, probably a guy.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-14 23:44 ID:yqoepWOA

You act mean to girls, because you fear getting rejected when you invest emotion into them. Because getting rejected by them will shatter your ego.

You are lying to yourself that you don't like anyone because you don't have your life together, and you cannot see yourself being successful in dating world.

Get your shit together, and your "inferiority complex bitch shield" will disappear.

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