Hi, I am new here, and I have a little problem here... well.. its not a little problem for me, but it is about my lifes hard choice, first of all, I am sorry, my english is bad, but I
ll trying my best to explain it.
I have a girlfriend, both of us is 24 this year.. were not young anymore, and its time to think about career or something, we both live in a country which we have a low salary, (there
s many reason behind it, but it was unwise to discuss it here, since it was a politics problem) and my family wants me to work in another country, and I planning to bring her with me.
I have discuss my plan with her and seems she quite sad leaving his hometown, because she hasnt go anywhere far from her hometown for a long time, she even doesnt have a pasport and her english is worse than me, she did say "agree" to coming with me to overseas to work (I think that was forced "agree" for me... ), but I guess it`ll be hard thing for her since she is quite inexperienced in living alone far from her parents, and I feels like I forcing her to come with me, in another side, I dun have siblings, so I must get a good job in order to take care my parents in the future.
what should I do now? T_T
Take her with you. If you both love each other then it won't be a problem. Teach her and help her with English, have fun with her in the new country. You guys can always go back once you make enough money...
bring her with you.
make money and bring her parents and your parents to the new country.
family reunion
If she agrees it means she loves you and wants to be with you. :)
Just reassure her that one day, when you both have enough money, you can always visit home again.
many thanks all, I`ll try my best for it :)