Two weeks ago we met online. After all the formalities and platitudes were out of the way we moved onto consistent (and not a second dull) emailing and from that MSN. Four days ago we had our first date – we went from bar to club to bar to bottle-o and then back to her studio where we smoked and drank and talked about stockings, being cute, Kill Bill and Poe.
Long story short we had sex. Amazing, mind blowing sex but that’s not what I care about. She’s in about every way my counterpart and I love her for the person she is, the sex was just a little on the side. Anyway she lives a good one and a half hours from me by train so when it was time for me to leave we did the whole kissing thing with our mouths and everything which was great and I really did think we’d go places.
It’s now three days since we’ve spoke and I’ve sent her the usual email and I’ve SMS’d her but she doesn’t respond. We did, in our drunken glory, throw her phone around a bit and it stopped working from what I can remember but still --- blarg.
This intermission is putting me back into whatever soft-core depressive neurosis she temporarily lifted me out of. Should I wait? What logic is behind her unresponsiveness?
Wait. The game has begun, and it seems you are the bitch. So back off and let her respond...don't do anything ,wait a couple of days and answer. If she answers right away, you have won!
>>2 is right. It's your first test. DO NOT make the same mistake I did, don't send a million emails or a card or anything like that.
>>2&3 wrong, she just wanted you for sex. Forget about her and move on with your life.
OP here, 4 was right.
How long until this horrible feeling goes away?
i am truly sorry
but you need to move on, you know?
women can be very cruel and deceiving, but you know what?
you are worth more than that.
do not let some woman ruin your life.
you will find the right girl for you someday, and she will not treat you wrong.
just remember... she was just a woman... a body... nothing really that important.
smile and hold your head high!! :D
>>3 here. Don't make the second mistake I made, moping over it for too long.
Swallowing another girl's saliva will shorten the mourning period.
OP here (again) – Well it’s time to pack up and move on. I’m 18 and I have enough self-esteem to consider myself decent looking and fun to talk to. For the two days that we were together she meant a whole lot more than she does now but she still is something. Hopefully another, more genuine body comes into my embrace or mine unto hers.
Thanks for the words.
xo
I got you are a man .