Okay, so, there's this little preppy sorority girl in one of my college classes. She's a strict Christian, very girly, and overall pretty vanilla. I, myself, am more into the Industrial/EBM/Noise subcultures, am involved in the occult (Left Hand Path), and am overall a free spirit.
Now, according to my classmates, she finds me "creepy" and "pretty weird". Uh, yeah, okay. However, this is completely different from the way she acts to my face. In fact, whenever she sees me, she comes up beside me, starts asking me about my day and what's been going on in my life, and then barrages me with an endless list of odd questions about my personal life... "Are you a Satanist? Have you ever spat on a crucifix? You said you're polysexual... have you ever gone down on a guy? Do you like sex with transsexuals? Why don't you talk funny like other gay guys? Have you ever had anal with a girl? Do you smoke weed? Blah blah blah blah..."
Okay, long story short, she's annoying me but it's in a way that makes me wonder: should I tell her to go away and shut up, or is this her way of saying "make my face like a painter's radio!"?
just like in the movies... kiss and tell. ;) that will stop all the questions.
She's obviously interested in you. The rest is up to you, really... I don't see any reason why she should not fall for you.
if she is approaching you with questions, then she is obviously interested in you..why else is she wasting time asking questions to someone she is not interested in? understand?
I'd say, do something crazy and unexpected with her then the deals done.
It's all fun and games until she pulls out a bible and tries to convert you, which is what she's going to do. Also, tell her questions are really immature and stupid and that if she's really curious she can do some research on the internet.
>>6 you're almost as close minded as you think she is. Look, it's natural that she finds him strange, but it's also encouraging that she's ready to speak with him. Reject her now is the most stupid move you could do. Worry about her proselytism when it manifests itself, but not before.
For all you know, she might actually even have doubts about her faith, and wish to confront her beliefs to someone who is obviously different.
Anyways, her attitude makes her interesting. The normal and boring reaction would be that she ignores him
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>>6
Nah, that's nothing. I've dated a strict Catholic girl and have a lot of conservative Christian friends (living in the South), so it's something I've learned to deal with gracefully and tactfully. That, and I think that her questions are sincere, and she's not a stupid bleach-blond bimbo like the rest of her sorority sisters are (bleeeeggggggh).
She hasn't proselytized to me yet. However, upon seeing my inverted crucifix necklace today (while we were riding in the elevator of our dorm), she DID give me a really weird talk today about how her grandmother prayed the rosary and it healed her arthritis or something like that and how during the civil war in her country that an angel appeared and saved her, I dunno, I kinda zoned out as it went on.
I dunno, she is INCREDIBLY preppy and vanilla, but maybe I'll invite her up to my room for a bottle of Medoc (hey, I found out she knows a bit about wine, which was impressive). At the very least, it'll be entertaining to see the conversation that ensues. >=3
OP, you sound hot. If I lived in your shitty conservative state, I would totally sit in your room, get drunk, and "discuss" kinky sex with you. I'm probably more your type, too. That's neither here nor there, though.
I'd enjoy hearing about how things with this girl go. I like hearing about the corruption of innocents. It's almost better than being the one who does the dirty work.
Why, yes, actually, I am hot. Well, if you consider the idea of a rivethead Jack Black to be hot. Which makes me a large buttery mass of sex appeal.
Anyways, we'll see what happens after class Monday. I can't wait to see the look on her little face when she sees my room.
lol occult people always thing they're so shocking, unique, impressive and superior to everyone else... (*-_-) Pleeease, here in L.A. no one would would even looks twice at your type.
She probably just likes you, geez. Get over yourself already Jack.
Your lifestyle seems pretty unorthodox compared to the girl's, but you also seem down to earth, and girls dig that. Why not become closer friends with her and see where this goes? She doesn't exactly sound compatible with you, but I've seen odder couples.
Uh, I never said I feel particularly unique or "edgy" simply because of my spiritual affiliation. I mean, I am awesome and impressive, but for many other, far more substantial reasons. I just mentioned it because it was key aspect of our polar opposites and at one point it sparked a conversation that I found to be humorous.
Oh yeah, and who cares about LA? It's a shithole.
Anyways... I have a plan. It shall be executed this week. If anything interesting happens, I will report back to yall with the details.
Oddly enough, I do find the idea of a rivethead Jack Black oddly appealing.
She's obviously just bored and trying to amuse herself by asking you these questions. If she happens to get a mildly "crazy" response, you can bet your bottom dollar that her and her uptight clique will be giggling over it during the next lunch break.
So sure, she's interested in you, but only for her entertainment, rather than any romantic interest.
Seriously, if a girl is interested in you romantically, she wouldn't be bombarding you with such generalised, stereotypical and quite frankly, offensive questions. I'm sorry, but "do you like sex with transsexuals" is definitely not a pick up line.
idk put it in her pooper, you'll find out.
Yeah, I'm actually leaning towards this, 15. I did get up to my place to enjoy some wine, and strangely enough, she said I was kinda cute, but seriously her questions ended up just becoming stupider and stupider. Finally I had to tell her to please, for the love of god, shut up with the stupid questions. "What do I look like, the fuckin' answer phone?"
Yeah, I know, I should've done it a long time ago, but I finally told her to stop, because this was just getting ridiculous.
But, hey, look on the bright side, I'm having a much cooler woman coming over to my place Saturday who's genuinely interesting to meet with. World keeps on spinnin'.