Hi guys, i know a beautifull girl, we talk almost everyday for hours on messenger. We have a lot in common and our conversations are allways a lot of fun.
I dont know if theres a bit of flirting on our conversations, maybe there is, maybe im just imagining things.
The issue here is that she has a boyfriend, according to her they are not in the best moment right now, the idiot doesnt realize he has a treasure.
What should i do? Is my only option to continue to talk to her and become close and hope that she and the other guy brake up?
Either you accept that you'll be friends and nothing more; or you lay your cards down and tell her you're not sure you want to get any closer because she has a boyfriend and you might be interested in her (don't tell her that as an ultimatum where she has to choose, though - just state the fact).
A girl that puts her messenger status "offline" just to talk to me for 2hours shows that she likes me (i'm not saying in that way) or that she hates the rest of the world! =)
I'll try to slowly show her that i love talking to her, that i like her. I can't just say everything in one go.
where do you live. i think i may have the same friend with the same situation.
In the same situation as me or the girl im talking about?
I dont have a girlfriend right now, she still has a boyfriend.
well the girl. problems with bf, talking to another guy, not knowing what to do, etc etc
Does the girl know the guy she is talking to for about 3 or 4 years, but spent a lot of time in between without talking to each other? Is he older than her? =)
I'm in Europe, thats all i want to say right now.
ahh sorry wrong person. although your situation is very similar to my friend's one.
I'm in Australia though.
what would you recomend me to do?
What would your friend liked that happened?
(I'm not >>8, btw.)
Yes, she likes to talk to you much because she likes you as a friend. Escape from the friendzone is almost impossible, no, I don't believe your situation is different and you shouldn't neither.
And "trying to slowly become closer" in that case is a worst plan ever and a perfect way to ruin a few months or even years of your life. If you want to do anything (which I recommend as you have nothing to lose), act as fast as you can and be prepared to fail.
I can't act while she has a boyfriend. What if she breaks up with him to come to me? Wouldnt i be excpecting her to do that to me in the future? Yes i would!
adding to what i just said:
We didnt talk much in the last years. Now, all of a sudden we start talking a lot, she said things like: "i only came to the internet to talk to you". We get along very well, we have many things in common, its allways a lot of fun. She mentions that the things with her boyfriend are not well.
At least, i have a good probability of sucess, right?
>>12
go for it... i'm sure she wants you to replace her boyfriend.
anyway somehow I'm curently in a situation that nearly like your situation now...
Got an invitation to go out with her, accepted it. Everything went fine.
We still talk online, but she is still with him.
Remember, they can always break up. But keep in mind that just waiting for that won't always work, keep your mind open
I have the same exp with U
I have fall in love with a girl
we talk so many times in YM, sometimes
we exchange pict that we have made by
simple paint, we do many things, she even
tell me about his relationship is no
in good condition and blabla
but what i have done? i just wait and talk
i'm too scared to say what i'm feeling and
now i regret it, i cann't get out from
Friendship boundaries right now..
she has give me hint, that i lately understand
that she has broken up with boy friend but..
i didn't take her bite.. I regret it now
so Good Luck my friend :) don't give up if Ur
heart still say yes, and Ur feeling say that
u love her, break up from her friendship
boundaries and become closer to her :)
Ganbatte ^^