good luck hopefully it will help try to formulate a plan of attack first before you talk to her write out what you want to say anticipate things she might say to you and come up with strong responses. remember you want to be in control here if she catches you off gaurd you might seem weak and thats the complete opposite of how this should go you have to be forceful and strong with this or she won't take you seriously or take it as an attempt to get back together. if reasoning doesn't work curse and yell if you have to she did some terrible things to you so you should have no trouble if it comes to that